sperm donor's a DRATER - ((swearing))

[celtic_kaos_kat]

drater = retard

 

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 so for visitation last week - he wanted pictures taken w/ kayden @ wal-mart. no problem with that as long as he doesn't think i'm paying for HIS pictures. 

anywho - they took a cpl pics together fine whatever - - but then when it came time for kayden's individual pics.. the sperm donor decided not to pay much attention to kayden and his safety and well-being.. instead of doing that - he watched the lil monitor, my sister and i, or the people walking around wal-mart behind us!?

 KAYDEN ALMOST FELL FROM THAT TABLE 3 OR 4 TIMES!!!!! i screamed at dave twice and so did my sister!! the picture lady was just kinda baffled that he was being so god damn retarded! cuz NORMALLY - she wouldn't have to tell a parent to make sure the baby doesn't fall off the table by watching him or even HOLDING him on the table!?!?! 

idk - i might need to fight for full custody so i don't have to deal w/ this kinda crap again.... my mom told me to back off for visitation... otherwise - I WOULDA BEEN RIGHT NXT TO HIM .. WATCHING EVERY LITTLE MOVE KAYDEN MADE!!!!!

i was pissed off the rest of the night @ dumbassdave. so far - he's only had ONE visit where it was a GOOD visit... the rest have been VERY bad cuz either (a) he wasn't watching out for kayden's safety and well-being (b) wasn't playing with kayden.. just sat there and watched him and me and (c) didn't talk to kayden... only thing he's talked to him about so far was his eviction notice............ SMMMARRTTT!!!

 

 i just needed to vent but i'll keep this updated... cuz visitation has sucked so far ............. grrrrrrr and i can't even say it even LOOKS like it'll get better as he gets older... -- it's pretty much the oposite at this point so far!?!?!?!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[MynTop]

Jan. 27, 2008 at 1:46 PM How scary!  Sorry your ex is being dumb!