She's really young but I don't feel like divulging that right now. My sister doesn't hate our family but I think my mom's ranting drives her away.She always picks on her no matter what and whenever my sis gets a chance she runs for it.My mom doesn't care unless I start bitching about it, a girl that young shouldn't be so far away from home. Anyways it happened again my sister took off with a 22 year old and has been staying at his mom's house and even went out and got a job, she called me and told me a few days ago she might be pregger's and just this morning called me and told that she and the father had decided to abort the child because they aren't ready for kids, it broke my heart but I said nothing negative.I called her back and left a small message telling her that I don't hate her in any way but am sad and disappointed and hope that in the future she will listen to me and please use bc and be more responsible.Well she called me back and told me she was bleeding and cramping real bad and felt like shit so didn't want to go to work but her bf made her.I told her she could be having a miscarriage or stressing, anyways found out that she wants to keep the kid but he doesn't want her too and that she actually want s to come home but he wants her to stay, I also think he just wants her to stay and help her pay bills and shit and the more I type this the more pissed I am getting, he's an illegal immigrant and I am so damn scare for her.I already told him to hell with his ass and please come home, we can figure out what to do, I want my mom to take her to the doctor and get her checked.I really wish I could drive so I could drive over there and get her back.I wrote his info down and I really hope she comes home tomorrow if not I'm giving the address to my brothers and telling them to go get her before something bad happens, I really don't know what to do or how to deal with it.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 12:38 AM Im sorry your family is going through that, I hope everything turns out ok.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 12:41 AM Thats a very stressful situation. I hope she chooses not to, and I hope she is able to get through this. 

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 12:43 AM Tell her if he cares about her that he would want her to go home and be with family right now
If she doesn't demand that he treat her better, he never will. Best of luck to all.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 12:51 AM well am glad she decided to NOT abort the baby. thank god! Is the guy violent towards her? if so I think you guys do NEED to go get her.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 1:01 AM I think there's more than she is telling me because she might be afraid, she has told me of two situations where she got scared by him so I really want her to come back, but damn if my mom doesn't help the situation and damn if my sis isn't so damn stubborn.She got in  to a bad situation before and we got her back but I really wish she would learn something once and for all.I don't get to involve because I bring her in to my home and we end up with bad blood at times, I love her she's my little sister but I have a husband and daughter to take care of too, my hubby is so damn sweet and has over looked so much but I can only ask for him to put up with so much.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 9:24 AM I'm so sorry this is going on with your sister, it's such a bad place she's in and a hard thing to watch. Just make sure she knows you love her and will support her no matter what. I spent a long time lost and I knew my family did not approve and it made it that much harder to get out. She needs your love so much right now.

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