This post is about my best friend. Her and her boyfriend just resently broke up, and he is now kind of sleeping with this other girl. My friend for the last week has been talking about nothin else but him and this other girl. But they've been broken up for a month now. She has all these great qualities about herself, but she keeps dweelign on this guy who's only using her. I understand why he broke up with her, because she is too clingy, she does nag alot to him, and she smothers him. But i also understand why she wants to be back with him. She is still in love with him. I went through the same thing with my EX/Baby's father but he wound up takin me back, but i later broke up with him and we haven't been together for almost a year. My friend just can't seem to realize that he doesn't want to be with him anymore. I've talked to her all the time since thursday last week and I'm at my wits end with her. I've told her she needs to stop making herself availiable to him when he wants to be around her. If he doesn't want to be with her she needs to see that. And I've also told her if she keeps doing this, a good man is going to pass her by, and she's gotten so many offers for dates she always says no. I understand thst she doesn't want to move on just yet but I've told her that if he wants to get back with her in the future, then she will give him time to do whatever he's going to do. He's 21 years old and he going to reguardless if she likes it or not. But also if she wants to be with him she's going to have to accept who he is. But I don't think he even wants to be with her anymore. I've talked to her about this alot in the last week and she really doesn't listen to me. Is there ANY advice somebody can give me because I've said and done all i can. And I don't know what else to do

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