....So for the past year i have been being harrassed bythis girl named Rachel. Let me tell you the story...

It first started when I was friends with her. The summer after our jounior year in High School she was getting veary controling, so i called her out on it! Well that didnt go over so well with her, so she said that were no longer friends and that she thinks im, well a slut! Funny she should say that, i will admit i have had sex, well duh im on cafemom, that must mean i had sex. But really I have had sex with like 3 guys. Thats not alot for my generation!!! But anyways. So she pretty much mad the rest of my summer misserable! When school came back around, I begged my mom to let me switch schools, she said no and that i need to face my problems, to just ingore it and it will all go away!

Why do us moms say that to our kids? Really? We know its not always going to go away! Sometimes it just makes it worse. And in this case it did.

So i did i ingored her the first day, and the second, and the third. But I relized that ALL my friends were pissed as all hell at me. I had no idea why, because i didnt talk to them all summer. I knew they hung out with her and i didnt want the drama. When i asked my friend sasha what was going on, she told me this..."you have some nerver to come and talk to me, after what you said about my son". Now i know that this is a little personal, but i need to tell you this so you know whats going on. She had lost her son when he was only 6months. He was still in utero. So she is  a angel mommy! Well back to my story. When i herd this i was like, "what are you talking about, you know i would never say anything about little steven!" So right then and there we both knew that Rachel was telling a whole buch of tall tales to get everyone to hate me! So i went on with my school, and my one friend sasha. She continued to harrasse me and try to fight me, but i did what my mama said and just tried to ingore her. I would go home alomst everyday after school and cry myself to sleep. It was hard. It finally got so bad at school i just dropped out. Yes i never graduated from High school. But im well on my way now! Better late than never right? So after i dropped out she found a new way to make my life misserable, the internet! Yes she would send me a tone of horrible comments, messgages, ect. on myspace making me feel horriable! If your wondring, i did block her a little after that. So anyways, i found out i was pregant, and so did she. This was perfect for her. Really, she is that sick! She started to talk all sorts of shit on my daughter. Sayin that she was going to be retarted becasue of her father and i, and that she was going to be the ugliest baby ever! PLEASE!! My daughter is fucking beautiful thank you!! So, I went through my whole pregancy with this bullshit. Stressful?? HELL YES IT WAS!! By the time I had her, I was to my breaking point with rachel, but when i looked into my daughters eyes for the first time, i totaly forgot wht was going on. When i got home, and checked my myspace, i had comments. Well when i would go back to there page to comment back, there would be loads of comments from her telling them that my baby was born all ugly and to not go see me in the hospital, and just horriable things!! I couldnt belive some of the things she came up with ! So anyways. I have been ingoring it for a while now, and she then finds my number and starts to prank call me. Now I just want everyone to know that she graduated like 2 years ago in 2006, and she is prank calling me. Shows what she did with her education right? Well at this point im seeing horrible commetns on peoples pages about my family and i and getting prbly about 10 prank calls from her a day. Still i continue to ingore it. It got to the point hwere i was feeling all depressed and well pissed off. So what i did was write a blog on my page venting. She is not suppose to be alble to read it, but some how she did. Then the harrassment go way worse. She somehow was able to write me a message on my hubbys profile, saying the normal. That mylie is reatrted, that im a slut, a bitch, and so on. And that my hubby is a whit trash drug addict!

Now she has worte me again as of yesterday. Telling me that im a horrible mother, and that mylie must feel like dog shit knowing that she has white trash for parents. And just things that really hurt people. Then she started to talk about how my mom had three kids by three different guys.


Well guess what...


IM FUCKING DONE WITH THIS BULLSHIT!!! Im going to the athorities for this now. Im going to not only get a fucking restraing order on the bitch, but im taking her fat oger ass to court to sue her for the damadge that has been done. For interupting my abilty to be a good parent, and for the deperssion she has caused me to have. Do you have any idea how hard it is to have to know that there is someone out there who knows where you live and alot about you that is trying to make you life a misserable hell. IT REALLY FUCKING SUCKS!!! 


So thank you for taking the time out to read this. Im sorry fo rthe language, but this was my way of venting.  

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 7:49 AM Wow! She needs to grow up. You call her out on something and she makes your life a living hell. She has some major balls. Go get your number changed. Set your profile to private so she can't get on your page and ignor her. I know you have been trying, but I don't know if you can take something like this to court. Go about your day as usual. Sorry you are going through this. I hope things get better for you and your family.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 8:18 AM girl u need to goto the athouritys that is the stupidest thing i have heard. how can a woman say things like that about a little baby?  she needs to grow up and stay away from u and your family.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 9:14 AM I dont know if you can get a restraining order unless she threatens you or someone in your family ,i could be wrong though ,I am so sorry you had to deal with all this it is terrible ,You did all the right things though ,Keep your head held up high and dont let her affect you ,Know your a better person than her ,Sounds like a lot of jealousy on her part ,Putting a child down is so low and ridiculous ,I would go to the authorities and see what you can do till then document everything she does they will want to see proof .And if she threatens you try to tape record it or have a witness so they can prove it i hope things get better for you sweetie hang in there ,Your a good mom just remeber that !! Stay beautiful. Malieka

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 9:41 AM

sweety I know what your going thru for sure....My sister has been doing that to me for the last 3 years...My daughter is five and wonderful and my sister has hated her and i since the day i found out i was pregnantl.....You just have to take what ever actions you can to make your life better..... Just be happy to know that she has nothing better to do then to think about ways to cause you grieve. and that means she has you on her mind alllllll the time....Its sort of flattering....you've moved on and she can't. so i guess it really sucks to be her...I hope this helps!

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 9:49 AM give me her info......i kick her ass!    who in the hell would say horrible things about someones child? thats the part i cant seem to understand.   you can do something about the harassment but i dont know how far the law will go.   she is crazy.   but girl......... i know she is hurting you but get on your feet and look in the mirror, you are a strong women , wife and mother and SHE cannot get you down. You cannot let her get you down. this is what she wants. she loves that she is pulling your strings and watching you react.   try not to write about how horrible you feel anywhere that she can get access to it. this is what fuels it.   make it as if it doesn't exist.  if you have similar friends on myspace that relay messages to her ........ dont talk to them about it.   make it seem as if you just dont care. dont write or talk to anyone about it that might talk to her later. this will start to kill her fire and if she all of a sudden gets even worse you will know its because you not caring is starting to get ot her.  besides, you not caring and showing that you are happy and dont deal with people who are destructive and immature like that might make her realize what a child she is.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 10:22 AM

To me it sounds like she is stalking you via internet .. I could be wrong but that may be the "leg you have to stand on".  There ARE laws out there to protect you from this and your lawyer should be able to help you there. It's crazy.. SHE is. She needs to be stopped because it IS harassment AND, I know from experience with my daughter being harassed by a boy, the law CAN do things to put a stop to it. Good luck hon.. the best thing you can do is go to the authorities for it.. Heck if they say they can do nothing, I would take it a step further and go to the local media until SOMEONE listens to you..

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 10:53 AM I have the same thing happening with a girl who used to be my friend, and she has posted very personal things about me on here and even stated that I beat my children, I am in the process of trying to sue for defemation of character. This is the only way you are going to be able to show her you are serious and make her realize that it is not a game. Do whatever you have to to make her pay for what she has put you and your family through

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 11:38 AM oh god girl that is so unfair to you. i know if that was me and my man i think she would be dead or even beat up by now, how did u put up with it for so long. i once had a very good friend not like that but similar as soon as she found out i was pregnat she stopped talking to me ,,, talked plenty about me to other people but not to me,, and to this day still hasnt spoking a word to me yes 11 years now but im not loosing any sleep over it.   i just keep saying to myself she doing that out of jellousey. you go girl take the bitch to court and take her for all she's got...

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 11:40 AM I'm sorry for the things you have had to deal with from this person. She sounds horrible and I hope that you and your family can get some help from the authorities or someone. I wish you the best!

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 11:45 AM Seriously, someone else already mentioned it but DOCUMENT DOCUMENT DOCUMENT!!! That's the best thing you can do to have any kind of backing from the authorities. Record any messages she leaves and don't let her see that she's gotten to you. Any of your real friends won't allow her to leave messages or comments about you and your baby. It's really easy to delete comments, and anyone who leaves that shit up for everyone to read is NOT your friend. I'm sorry you have to deal with that, but I honestly think you hold the power to make her stop. This has been going on for far too long and at some point you need to be the one to stop it, don't play into her bullshit and don't waste your time trying to convince people she's lying......if you really need to convince anyone....they don't matter anyways! Being a new mom is so much work and you need all your energy for that beautiful little girl. Good luck sweetie!

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