i was raped 2 times by my father when i was little like a baby until i was 7 years old until my father die the doctors told me that i wont be able to have any babys at all.than before i turn 21 years old my boyfriend at the time eric raped me that how i got pg with his baby that now 12 years old daughter that is austist which eric dont pay any childsupport at all i cant get insurance at all for my daughter why i am telling ya this cause i have nothing to hide and my life been really hell i been trying to get pg for ages and maybe i thought i couldnt get pg at all or whatever the case my be now i am 35 yrs old dont look like it dont feel like it now i found a man after all these years rick been together bout 2 years feels like forever now just found out that i am pg...wish it was sooner than later but i am.my daughter i have now didnt know i was pg until i was 5 month pg i wanted things to be different now.the doctors say its way to early to go in to the doctors and even get a ultrsound cause they dont see any thing i cant remember my last period stupid me....so now its a waiting game of being patient,hhave faith,stay calm and pray.i really want this baby so much i was scared but excited and wanted to do things differently with this pg but now i got to wait a whole month to go back to get ultrsound.they say i didnt have a miscourged that good to hear i dont miss my period at all and hope everything well be okay this baby is a blessing from the lord and hope everything well be okay......please keep me in yr prayers just like a would pray for ya thanks,,,,,for taking the time to read this oxox god blessed ya all

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 8:06 AM Congrats on the pregnancy. I hope all turns out well for you and your family.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 8:09 AM I am happy for you. Have you looked into medicade for your daughter. only your income counts for her. And it would be a two person household. Check your states medicade web site and they should have the numbers on there for you. Ours are really high. You can make a lot and still get some insurance. And you should be able to get pregnancy medicade for the preganacy. If not go to the health clinic. I did with my last because my husband was out of a job for a while. Hope you have a healthy baby.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 8:16 AM hopefully you can come out of this with a healthy happy baby. why would they say you cant have an ultrasound? huh thats strange why wouldnt they do one right away to judge the due date etc. i like to know.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 8:16 AM   hi...its nice knowing you more and i see a very beautiful and strong woman in you. Have faith and take care of yourself and wish you well with your coming baby.God bless...

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 8:27 AM

I'm so sorry about your troubles in the past.  I hope you have had a chance to heal from those awful events.

Congrats on your current pregnancy!  I'm so happy for you.  I wouldn't stress too much about having to wait to see a dr.  Most OBs won't see you until you are around 8 weeks past your last period, because before that they can't see anything on an ultrasound and there isn't much that they can do other than take a blood test.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 9:02 AM

You have had a hard time but you seem to be a very strong woman and you have given that gene to your children so i pray that this lil person is perfect!!!

As far as how far along you are you can have blood work drawn where they can measure how much of the pregnancy hormone there is in your system to get a good estimate of how far you are... and since you are 35 you may be sent to a specialist because they will consider you advanced maternal again, and will want to run extra test on you, but don't let that scare you as long as you take care of yourself, your taking care of the baby!!!

And for you DD I agree with someone above who mentioned medicaid or medicare, check into one of these for her.

Good Luck!!! 

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 10:41 AM

I see a very strong woman in front of me that has done the best with the cards  that she has been

delt look at how far  you have come. and a not on the pg thing i think cause you are older they want to be 

sure everything is ok do not worry. 

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 11:47 AM I am so sorry about your past. i just dont understand how a father could do that to their own child..moreless to any child. but i am glad your are preg. now. i hope everything will be fine!

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 12:02 PM Wow... I'm glad you were able to take positive things away from your tragedies and that you have a loving partner now and I hope your pregnancy and birth and new start on motherhood are all wonderful and beautiful!

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