A couple of weeks ago I went to the hospital because I started to bleed alittle I was about 21/2 months pregant. I really didnt think anything of it because I bleed with my first baby.  Well they told me that I started to hem-brigde. That I was going to lose my baby in acouple of days. I lose my baby jan 16. It was the worse thing that ever happened to me. I think about it everyday . Like what would it would it have been maybe my girl i always wanted. Or would my baby have looked like my or my husband. I never new it would have been like this. Anybody out there in Cafemom that had a miscarriage I am very sorry and I now what you are going throw.. 

      The doctors told me that when a women misses her period for a couple of days most of them are pregant and whan they start to bleed they have had a miscarriage. Its crazy but very true.. just something I thought to let everybody now..      

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 9:48 PM I'm sorry for your loss. I will be praying for your healing (physical and spirital)

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Feb. 6, 2008 at 10:56 AM Aw hun. I am sorry for your loss. I have had 2 miscarriages in the past and I feel your pain right now. My daughter was truly my miracle baby. I had a rough time with her and about the bleeding when you are pregnant meaning you are going to miscarry is false. It does not always mean that at all. It just depends on other circumstances. Your body knows when it is ready to create/develop new life in my opinion and this wasn't the right time. Anyways, back to my point. I bleed with Kaitlyn preiodically throughout my pregnancy and I freaked out everytime. My doc told me it was fine, but he still saw me everytime within 1 day of me calling. Just keep close touch with your doc if you try and have another lil one. Also, a friend of mine lost a baby last year and within 3 months she was pregnant again. She had her boy on Jan 16th. I know it hurts to loose a child, but think that baby will be with you everyday watching over you and your current lil one. You now have another angel looking out for you beautiful momma.

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