as you know my sons and my ex for 13 years passed yesturday it has long couple of days the visitation and funeral is on mon and tuesday i need to be strong for my son my so i am stonger i need to know is it ok for my husband and my brother to be there for at least the wake reason christopher and his uncle are really close and bob wants to him to know even though he has his dads family i think its important for him to look out and see that what ever he decides to do know we are all here for him  at this difficult time     i know as his mom i need to be strong i know after all is settled i am going to need bob more than you know  so is it ok to have bob with me at least one of the days and my daughter will be there with me the rest of the way          need to know

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 10:02 AM I think it's fine...unless they request something else.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 10:24 AM i think knowing that bob is there for the added support he has been through this his father so in time christopher can open up to him you know

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