You know what ladies as I get older I just get more and more mellow life is to damn short to let shit get you down.  I have a lot of stuff going on around me and I just finally said you know what it IS WHAT IT IS.  Does this mean I sit passively by while life work on me?  Hell 2 tha NAW!!!  Its just that I dont let life get me down!! MY husband is unemployed and I am due to drop this baby in a lil over 2 months but you know what I am no longer stressing!!!   God is always looking out and my bills are paid and on time (for the most part) and I kow that I will be provided for one way or another when my due date hits and i'm on an unpaid maternity leave.  So its cool. 

I'm loving life right now despite all the drama.  It feels good to fell good!!!  Now you know I'm pregnant so i might feel like shit tomorrow but for right now ITS ALL GOOD!!!!


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Feb. 1, 2008 at 11:27 AM I think it does come with age...I am soooo not interested in the DRAMA anymore, life is to short to stress and worry about things you just can't change...Good Luck to u with the baby..

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 11:30 AM

I love your honesty and gustiness! God will look out for you!! My sister is in the same boat- she is pregnant with her 6 child- and her husband just lost his job! SO i have been trying to cheer her up- but you know like you said - God will provide- maybe not our wants - but he will take care of our Needs!!

Hang in there- things will look up!!

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 11:38 AM I am glad you finally let go and gave it to God. More people need to try that. I mean, how easy is it to get rid of a problem to the best hands in the world?? When I do that, people around me say~ well aren't you worried? Arent you gonna try to fix it? Ummmmm. nope. I do what I can, but trusting God is the best way to deal. When my husband first became a CHristian he would say~ well, I'd rather believe in God and then rot in the ground if He isn't true, than not believe in God, and burn in He**, when I realize uh oh~ He is true!!! Now, tho, he knows the truth and wonders how he ever didn't believe. SO keep the faith and best wishes with everything.

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