Ok, I am not mad, just really sad, upset. I just want to cry.

I have a "really good" friend, that in a few short months we became really close. We have children close in age. They moved a few years ago, and even though we do not talk every day, we remain close.

I found out sunday that she had her gall bladder removed. No biggy. I was just shocked that here husband did not call me.

She calls Tuesday morning at 6 am and askes me to come help her. When I get there, I find out that the dr nicked an artery that cannot be fixed. She coded 2 times at the hospital. She is SICK. They let her out. I stayed for 2 days and did everything for her. Meanwhile, I am reaming her husband for not calling me and he says, he did not think it was "THAT BAD!"

Later, she tells me he has a girlfriend! So, I come home. I pray for her, and worry about her!

I go to my MIL office. She is out feeding my horse. He is over 20 and has been sick. She comes back and tells me that he is dead!!! So on top of all this with my friend, my horse died!

I am so sad! I just want to curl up into a ball and stay there! I know that I cannot. I have been gone for 3 days, and my house is destroyed!

Sorry this is so long....

Rest in Peace old man!  I love you!  I miss you!

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 12:15 PM I'm so sorry you're having a rough time. And it was really sweet to post a picture of your horse. So is your friend gonna be ok??

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 1:35 PM Oh my gosh! I'm so sorry! What a horrible day! Keep your chin up!

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 7:40 PM I am sorry to hear about your horse and your friend. Thank God that you have the good heart and health to help others. Stay strong and keep the faith. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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Feb. 3, 2008 at 12:47 AM

That is a good pic. of ol' Cinn!   I love you!  And you are a Great Friend......Your other friend's husband needs a reality check.....he won't find better!!!  Cinnamon was a fighter....he was a tough ol' bird!!  You are a great momma!!  I love you !  Stay Strong!!

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Feb. 7, 2008 at 9:08 AM I am so sorry to hear about your friend and your horse. What a very hard thing to go through all at once. I will be praying for your friend and for you.

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