Okay so now I sit here and don't even know where to begin. My husband is currently out at the courthouse still fighting but this time....just for visitation. Our lawyer had a conference call with the gaurdian-ad-lietm and my hubbys ex's laywer yesterday. She recommended that Scott stay with his mother. Scott said that he "didn't know his dad, that his dad was hard on him, that he felt safe know that Shane (scott's bm "husband") was gone. This was a complete slap in the face to us. Our son has sat their and lied to us over and over again...to our face. The whole reason we started the custody battle was because he said he wanted yto come live with us and that he did not feel safe with his mom. Scott has lied to so many people about this it really is disturbing. He's lied to  us, to our families, to his grandparents, to aunts and uncles but the worst was that he lied to my husbands face. I really don't even know what to say. My husband is so hurt right now. He feels betrayed by his own son. We would have never spent $6000 on all of this if Scott would have been honest. All my husband ever told him was to be honest. At 9 years old he knows the difference between right and wrong. I will update more later. I dont even feel like talking.

I do want to thank everyone for their prayers! Thanks so much. It is nice to have friends to turn to for comfort or advice. Thanks again.

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