Really, I'm a very pleasant, caring person.  But so I've had two posts either deleted or locked since yesterday!  In one group,. I noticed that several threads had been locked, and didn't understand why. They hadn't violated any of the group's guidelines. I posted simply asking why they had been locked.  That post has since been deleted.  Then...  in another group, I learned that at least two members had been deleted and banned from the group.  It's a politically themed group, so of course there will be debate.  The two members deleted were never disrespectful.  But first they had posts deleted, then they were completely deleted from the group.  I  posted simply asking why posts and members were being deleted. I was told to leave it alone, it was for the admins to handle, and the thread was locked.  In both cases, all I had done was simply call attention to something that didn't seem fair.  But instead of explaining the other side of the story... I got shut down.  WTH??

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 3:38 PM was it the mommy's circle? They only want their opinion to be voiced and not your. Its funny they change the guidelines everyday to fit thier needs. and even have a separate room marked private so they cna go and talk about the other members. The owner treats it like its a fortune 500 business. I left I was so sick of that type of immaturity.

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 10:02 AM No, it was a different group. One of the admins kept trying to leave a comment here last night that just would have extended the drama.  i'd delete it.. she'd repost.  This happened 4 times.  Cyberstalk much?  Jeez, I was just venting about what happened, not make it more dramatic.

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Feb. 3, 2008 at 12:57 PM Oh my God, I can't believe that, why would they do it.  How rude.  Does this go on in cafemom all the time.  I hope it is not one of the groups I am in.

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