What do you do when you're in love with someone and aren't sure if you want to be with them???

I'm so tired of Donnies sister she uses her kids to get things from Donnie b/c she knows he'll do it... Like her car has neede gas the last couple of weeks so her nephew calls saying it's so she can take him some place, and its really not... Well his gas card didn't work lastnight so they didnt get gas anyways... I just feel that since her and her son direspected me he shouldn't be doing a damn thing for them...      It would be like if my parents called him the "N" word he wouldnt want Day around them at all and probably not me either and I would respect his wishes...  I feel he just doesn't understand...

I know they're somehow always going to be in his life but me and my son won't be...

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MyBle...
Feb. 1, 2008 at 2:47 PM well just distance yourself from her & her kids then. you don't have to associate w/ her. how did she disrespected you though?

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Saniy...
Feb. 1, 2008 at 3:07 PM I feel you...he should respect your wishes. Sometimes I think they don't really understand that your WIFE comes 1st and foremost and ABOVE your family (mother, sister, etc)....they think "that's my family, I gotta do this or that" but noooo....his sister needs to stop using him and stop taking from you and your son by getting money and time from YOUR husband. Even if it is her brother...he's not her dad or her husband. Sorry you have to deal with that crap. I know how it is not to like some of your hubby's family members...it's a PAIN!

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Tahja...
Feb. 1, 2008 at 3:45 PM

I dont think you are second guessing your relationship with Donnie, I think that you are frustrated with how he is acting...and basically all you can do is ask and talk to him about his sister...

 

and honestly some black people dont think it's as bad  to disrespect a white person as it is to disrespect them...sad but true, from what I have seen.

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