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Question: if you found pron on your hubbys lap top?

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would you fuss him out and tell him it not right it is down right degrading

say ooh will men will be men

tell him you found ask why it there

tell him you found it and watch with him


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 i was very mad to day ween i look though hubby lap top  i had to call him and ask him the password will i got it .. kind wish i hadnt i found lots of porn on it. he tryed to say it was for his cuz  so i got off the phone with and lift a massage for his cuz girl friend i told her no more porn would be downlowed from my house i didnt like i thought it was down right degrading! i called hubby back and told him i that i lift a massage for her he said he didnt know why i like to start shit .. well if it his cuz porn i think she has a right too know what kind person she with !

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fjoachim
Feb. 1, 2008 at 4:01 PM

Me and my DH watch porn all the time!

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lillpop
Feb. 1, 2008 at 4:01 PM

  I don't get it , do you BELIEVE that its the cousins porn???

  or were you trying to see how you DH would react ??
 

 I don't

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ceall...
Feb. 1, 2008 at 4:01 PM With children in the house who also use the computer, that's the last thing that should be on there.  As for watching it with him, why should we need that to get the motors running?  We can make our own.

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justj...
Feb. 1, 2008 at 4:03 PM porn is fun when looked at & other "stuff"  with the rightperson. hubby &iwatch porn all the time. hell it's better that he takes care of himself when idon't wat toor just can't,at least i know he is't off sticking it in another hole.

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lillpop
Feb. 1, 2008 at 4:03 PM   He is gonna find a way to watch it, so either accept it or delete it and tell him ( your DH ) to watch his porn on his own time in another place

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mom0f...
Feb. 1, 2008 at 4:03 PM I will be honest, I have watched porn with my hubby. And I don't care if he watches it. Better than having him going out and hooking up for real. If he was out doing it with another chick, then yeah, I would be really angry. But not for him watching something on a screen and maybe even having fantasies in his head.

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AMC11...
Feb. 1, 2008 at 4:11 PM

Why are you so mad? I would rather have my man watch porn than leave my house and bone another woman (sorry for the profanity). I watch porn, so what? He hates it when I get off, but  sometimes I am tired and I need to get to sleep so I finish myself off to relax.

You are together, you are comitted to each other, so what if he watches other people on TV? What if all he liked to watch was violence and people getting shot, would that be degrading? Does that mean he is a violent person? No. Also, what do you prefer: for him to stop downloading porn and start "working late" or for him to be at home watching this? I'd rather my man be at home. Embrace it, watch it for yourself you may even learn a thing or 2. You don't have to love it, but appreciate that he is at home. Focus on the positive not the negative.

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Solie...
Feb. 1, 2008 at 5:16 PM I completely disagree with her^^^^ I think it is completely degrading for a HUSBAND to watch porn and jack off on his own...He might as well go to a strip club or whore house! If the two of you have some kind of agreement or something that is another thing, but if he has porn on a password protected computer and lies about it! Then thats saying something! He KNOWS its WRONG!!!! If you are willing you could try what hubby and I do....We have one porn dvd that I picked out, and only I know where it is...When WE BOTH are in the mood we pull it out and have fun TOGETHER! HUSBANDS SHOULDN'T BE GETTING OFF TO OTHER WOMEN ALONE! in my eyes its cheating!

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raisi...
Feb. 1, 2008 at 5:58 PM To have  porn downloaded in the computer is downright wrong, that's a way of informing you that his not content with your sex life and his too comfortable with you. and that he needs an inspiration from other ladies to enjoy your love life.  You need to have a heart to heart communication with him on how to spice up your bedroom preferences.

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Grand...
Feb. 1, 2008 at 7:34 PM

I watch porn with hubby.   I don't see anything wrong with couples watching porn.  There is a problem when one partner hides something from the other.  This is the perfect opportunity to talk openly about sexual needs and desires...  Everyone is different.   Then come to an agreement.  Telling your husband he can't will only cause new  problems in your relationship.  Porn can actually heighten sexually.  IT IS NOT A REFLECTION OF DISCONTENT WITH YOU OR YOUR MARRIAGE.

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