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Okay this is what I dont understand about groups on here. Take the Love Your Husband group. Not all marriages are perfect. And when you have a group you should have it set up so that you can talk about your marriage. The good and the bad. I dont know why some groups are like that but they are. My husband and I fight and have days where we cant stand each other. Why can't I talk about that in that group? I still love my husband, but I do need advice on somethings. I dont understand it. If you can explain it to me then please do so. Im all ears or eyes. If the owner of that group sees this... Please explain to everybody why we cant do that. Thank you.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 6:10 PM

MAybe some people are in denial for all couple those days and no marriage is perfect.. So I am with you why cant woman be supportive and mature and discuss life as it is .. And it is not perfect even the best marriages have issues. I have 19 years under my belt have not been perfect. Lots of hard work  and patience and communication

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 8:08 PM

I know what you mean about the group you mentioned... we're human beings, we're not going to have wonderfully happy days and get along 24/7 with our husbands.  And it's misleading to act as if that's the case.  We should be able to ask for advice and vent when we barely even like, let alone, love our husband.


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Feb. 26, 2008 at 8:29 PM I'm new here, but I just read your comments and know what you mean.  I've only been married for almost six years, but that's long enough to know that some times you just don't get along.  I'm not perfect, but I married a man with a lot of problems and he can be very mean and cruel and hateful.  He calls names, yells at me, puts me down, and tells me I'm worthless.  Should I love him when he talks to me that way?  NO!  I hate him and love him.  Sometimes I want to kill him.  But, sometimes, he is the sweetest, most caring, loving man in the world.  I do love him, but we're  not perfect.

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