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Katie's Own Little Bubble

I am at the computer yet again.  DH is watching tv. Like I don't exist.  I tried to talk to him, you know have a conversation.  I was talking to myself.  I needed 5 dollars to buy something.  He ignored me.  He refuses to spend anytime with me.  I spend all day alone with my kids.  Then he comes home and I am still alone.  I go to sleep without a hug or kiss.  No cuddling, no sex.  I am sooooooo alone.  I worry that my marriage is coming apart.  I try to talk to him. I try to find out what is wrong.  I get no answers.  Things never improve.   I just want to cry!

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qtpie94
Feb. 1, 2008 at 7:51 PM My heart is breaking for you.  How frustrating to be trying to communicate and getting nothing in return.  Have you ever heard of a book titles boundaries by Drs. Cloud and Townsend.  It won't change him but if you enjoy reading it will definetely help you. 

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JFond...
Feb. 2, 2008 at 10:31 AM Well, I could have posted the same comment!  I too am home with the kids, hubby comes home and reads his magazines, watches TV, and completely ignores the world.  "Well, I need to decompress from my day!"  And I don't?  Then, he falls asleep on the couch about 9PM and lets me again deal with the kids solo as if I am not just as tired.  I get up at the same time he does every morning but I am up with the baby until 12-1AM so I average about 5 hrs of sleep a night.   Also, I have spent the day void of adult interaction for the most part!  My most meaningful discussion was about the Chronicles of Narnia...fascinating.  On top of it all, he is going to Vegas next week for business.  A week of being away from the children and I bet you he comes home from his trip and crashes.  I will be so pissed!  Unfortunately, I think it is just a man thing.  They are ridiculous.  If I didn't think I would miss sex so much I swear to God somedays I think I am gonna switch teams.  j/k

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Autis...
Feb. 2, 2008 at 8:14 PM hunny I've been ther just hit him over the head with a friing pan ans see if that helps him out. j/k  See if he will go and talk to someone with you.

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