This morning, my husband made me guilty by saying that I can't even fix his lunch, he said that I have the time to go online but I don't have the time to fix his lunch, then he kissed me and left to go to work. I felt so guilty, I called to say sorry and cried, then went back to sleep.

After his work, he called me and told me that I don't even call him, that I don't even miss him, he said "maybe bec you're too busy with your youtube shows that's why you don't even bother calling me, I'll tell your mom how you are to me." 

Oh gosh, what is happening to him? Why is he suddenly craving for my attention?  

Lilypie Expecting a baby Ticker

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 9:09 PM Because fantasy football is over.  Suddenly we exist.  My husband is doing the same thing.  I said that he should take his medicine or sleep alone!  LMAO!  Don't worry, fantasy baseball start up soon.  Have a great night!

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 9:10 PM

Don't know why, but you'd better give it to him!!!  He's hinting around that he need attention.  Give it to him or he will look elsewhere.  Keep your man happy or someone else will!!

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 9:10 PM He's probably thinking about the baby coming and then he'll haven even less alone time with you. Get off the puter and plan a nice romantic dinner for him and give him some reassurance.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 9:11 PM i'd tell him kiss my ass, fix your own damn lunch

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 9:21 PM My guess is this is his way of reacting to pending fatherhood. Time to communicate with him in a really positive way so these passive aggressive tactics stop. They aren't helpful.

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Feb. 3, 2008 at 5:36 AM I'd say give him the attention he is craving for. At least he is telling you.

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Feb. 5, 2008 at 4:36 PM Thanks for all your inputs, I now prepare my husband's lunch, I prepare it after our dinner so I don't have to wake up early the next day to prepare it.  

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