i get on here, crying my eyes out, and pour my heart out to everyone in the newcomer's group (because it was thefirst group i saw).  and within minutes i am being bashed because i "contradicted" myself????

yes i pop my boys if they need it, but i'll tell you that i have never laid an angry hand on them.  if i spank, it is after we have discussed the situation. and why we're not supposed to do these things.  (i don't consider it a real spanking because they get ONE swat on the behind)

i can count on one and how many times i have popped.  and with him being 4 years old, i don't believe that constitutes as abuse.  it is my way of parenting and if you dn't like it, oh well!  it works for our family! 

but i make a vow now....i wil NEVER again divulge the happeings in my life to anyone on here!

have a good night!

Miss Contradiction


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Feb. 1, 2008 at 10:14 PM Sounds like you just wandered into the wrong group sweetie...don't worry about it!

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 10:16 PM

find a better group dont let one bad group riun the rest lots of em are really great


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Feb. 1, 2008 at 10:18 PM Girl...Don't let those other witches bother you. They like to think they are the only way to be and the only way to parent. I can't stand these women. Mainly because every one of them has to tell you that everything you do is wrong. They love to bully other women on here because they are allowed to do it. Don't stand for it. Report them for abuse...or whatever the heck it is called on here.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 10:20 PM

Not everyone on here is so extreme as whomever commented to your post.  Myself I pop once in awhile.  Sometimes it is the only way to get through to them.  c


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Feb. 1, 2008 at 10:20 PM I believe in spanking there's nothing wrong with it...its been done for years and it's only abuse if the parent would hit in anger on a place different than the butt

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 10:21 PM speak your mind ignore mommas that can't hold there tongues

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 10:23 PM You keep right on raising YOUR child how you see fit. As long as there is no abuse don't let ANYONE tell you how to do or criticize your parenting. They don't pay your bills or anything else so don't sweat it sweetie. Take what you need from the groups or anyone on here and leave the rest.

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Feb. 1, 2008 at 10:24 PM Don't worry, there are plenty of us "imperfect" moms here, just looking for a place to talk, relax, blow off a little steam, or just get advice and chat.  Ignore the extremists.  It's really not a bad place.

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