Its 1:30am here. I woke up again, crying and scard for my daughter's life. I keep dreaming about her dad coming and killing her and as she takes her last breath I am holding her. It feels so real, that I can't sleep at night. I feel like someone been whatching me for about 2 weeks now and I not that kind of person to feel that way. I don't know what to do or how to feel right now. All I know it feels so real that I can't sleep. Its hurts so bad in side.. Can any one help me? I need some kind of help and I don't know how to get it. Last time I feel like someone was whatching me, it was my x and he try killing me..So what do I do now. I can't go to the cops and say I have a feeling, they can't do anything about a feeling. Someone Please Help?

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 1:22 AM You can go to the cops and just maybe exaggerate a little... Say that he's done this before, and that you have heard noises outside, that you can't sleep, and that you are afraid for your life... Maybe they can at least have a car drive by your house a few times during the night to keep an eye on things... also, change up your routine, do different things if you don't already... go to sleep at different times, eat at different times, don't drive the same way to get to a place that you go often... and last suggestion, if you have family or a friend close by maybe you should see about staying with them for a few nights... hope some of this helps... good luck and I'll pray that you and your sweet baby stay safe...

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 1:23 AM sweety you need to tell some one it would not hurtto go to the cops even if you go file a no contact order or some thing maybe you should go stay with a friend or family member or some one who would make you feel a little more safe maybe if you sleep with your lil girl withyou you would feel like you were keeping her safe i know that i am living by myself for the first time my husband and i are temp seperated and i sleep on the couch cuz i am scared someone will break in and i will not hear it so you need to talk to some one and find out what you can do to maybee feel safer or get the issue taken care of                      Brittany

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 4:34 PM I am sorry you are going through this. I myself was a single mom for the first 5 years of my sons life, and was also scared a lot. I slept with him to make me feel like I was saving him and in the long run I was "saving"myself also. If this doesn't work for you,go stay with someone for a while. Follow ShastaVA"s advice about changing things up. Also go ahead and call the cops, just to hear them out. See what they have to say. Maybe they can do a drive by like she said. Keep us informed and stay safe.

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