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Ok, where to begin, I have a really hard time admitting it is my fault.  I did sleep around with an old boyfriend this summer while my family was gone.  I have convinced myself the marriage was over 4-5 yeas ago.  Then why did I not go away?  He gave me two chances.  I could have made a clean break and now I am in the biggest muck I have ever been in.  My Mother and Step Father are always in my business and are such controlling a..holes.  I wish I could pay for this myself.  I will have hang over my head for rest of my life.  i just wish I could come clean and start over with another man.  Let my ex to be have the kids and move forward.  I love the control and ruining his life.  The kids are caught in the middle but like they always say kids are strong and bounce back.  Look at me I am a victim of child sexual assault and I am just fine.

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ShastaVA
Feb. 2, 2008 at 3:17 AM All I have to say is wow...

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xtina34
Feb. 2, 2008 at 3:29 AM Just to get this straight .. you want to start a new life with the new boyfriend, try to ruin your ex's life and let him have custody of your children ??    WOW!  Yeah, you need to just get hit by a bus.

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runaw...
Feb. 2, 2008 at 6:47 AM Well, you seem just fine to me. Except for the sleeping around part. That's not very cool. Oh, and the slight control issue you've got there. Now that I think about it you've got a bit of a vindictive streak there with the "ruining his life" thing. Since we're on the subject, I don't want to criticize but you may be an eensy bit lacking in the nurturing department. Other than that, you're fine.

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goatmom4
Feb. 2, 2008 at 9:06 AM if you care about the kids be mature and don't ruin his life   then the kids can still have the family   just  in seperate homes

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Mary0791
Feb. 2, 2008 at 10:25 AM Wow.  Do you have any empathy at all?  You controlling, manipulative, cold-hearted shrew.

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tiffa...
Feb. 2, 2008 at 11:54 AM are you for real!!!!

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jspy72
Feb. 2, 2008 at 11:55 AM

"Look at me I am a victim of child sexual assault and I am just fine." 

 I beg to differ with this statement. You are not just fine at all. Nope, not at all.

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kitty...
Feb. 2, 2008 at 12:03 PM If you are indeed serious, yeah...  You're not just fine.  Actually, you're pretty damn messed up in the head.  Your "ex" should get custody because you just don't deserve to have kids.  You deserve to have your uterus removed so you can no longer spawn and make children you'll end up messing up for life.

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Ourst...
Feb. 2, 2008 at 3:01 PM

Look at me I am a victim of child sexual assault and I am just fine.

You think?  Sleeping around is not being fine sweetie.  It's being selfish.  So selfish that you are willing to leave your kids behind just to, hmmmm what did you write?  Oh yeah, "ruining his life".Not even fighting for your kids! Being in control.  lmao If you were in control then you wouldn't have committed ADULTRY!   Maybe you need to be alone without the kids so that yo could go around and sleep with more men.  Yeah that's it! That's the right thing to do.  I think your hubby and kids are better off with out you.  You can then live the single life.

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Ourst...
Feb. 2, 2008 at 3:04 PM

lol I just looked at your profile and I think you are just someone who might be mad at someone else and made a false profile maybe even using the picture of the woman you're mad at.  Either that or just just a kid palying around.  Either way you need some growing up to do.

Kids' Interests: i don't know, they would much rather be with their father. i sleep when i get in from work and let the boys fend

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