Since Ali has been home I am the one who takes care of her. I feed her, change her, deal with her oxygen, bath her, get up at night with her and anything else you can think of. Well last night I got so frustrated because she was screaming and her monitor was going off... Little Ali might be small but her scream is hell! It makes me want to scratch my ear drums out lol!! Anyway, I am attempting to fix her pulse-ox (sp) and change her and feed her.. While all of this is going on my husband is asleep. just laying in bed.. I was so annoyed I yelled at him "GET UP- Cant you hear that I am struggling here???? He tells me you should have said something so I tell him Um hello pretty sure she is yours too and I shouldnt have to ask for your fucking help! You should just do it.. How can you not tell I need help RUDY!!! Well that was at 3 next thing I know it was 10 am and he asked me to get her so he could sleep... Well I guess he got my drift. She has been home a week and I get like 2-4 hours asleep a night.... It was much needed. Maybe  now he will appreciate what I do more....

Thanks for reading.

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chrys...
Feb. 2, 2008 at 12:59 PM good for you he should be helping...

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arkmo...
Feb. 2, 2008 at 3:31 PM

I hope he starts helping you more now.....I am so glad that she is home though....

 

Angie

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