So about 2 weeks ago we find out our license plates are suddenly not in my fiancee's name. We have been fighting a lot about this car for awhile, my friend stole it about 5 months ago and since then it hasn't been the same. So i have been driving it with out plates and have been pulled over a couple of times, with only tickets or warnings. It is hard to get this fixed when the car is in my fiancee's name and we work opposite schedules and he can't drive... So on Thursday I get pulled over and threatened to be arrested. Of course it scared the SH*T out of me so I started crying and drove up to my fiancee's work (which was where I was headed). I then had to call off of work because I couldn't drive and I had no money for a taxi or a friend that was close enough to drive me, plus it was snowing. Well then my friend offered to take me early Friday morning to take care of the car. But I knew she would fall through so I got a Plan B (my fiancee said I didn't need it...) to just pick up my paycheck if anything fell through. Well THEY BOTH FELL THROUGH. So at this point I have no money or help from friends... Well my fiancee did some extra work at work and earned $50 so that helped us. Then come to find out, my doctor's appointment was cancelled because of the weather. We were supposed to find out what the baby is too. I was so upset and depressed. So Kris got home from work (he had to walk so I met him halfway.) and we went to bed early. So this morning- Kris goes to work at 7 and I wake up at 9:30 and start looking for a ride to work, we don't have enough for a taxi both ways for me to go to work, and the 1 friend that could help me, wouldn't. So again I had to call off. At this point I know I lost my job. So felling depressed I get off my ass and walk to the library, that is where I am now. I don't know what we are going to do, we are behind on rent, I am trying to find a job closer so I can walk and we are supposed to be moving at the end of this month. Life just slapped me in the face.


On the good side, I am 21 weeks and 1 day pregnant and you can feel the baby kick from the outside now! lol. I have a video of the baby kicking at my stomach. It is so cute... 

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 2:29 PM Things will get better!  Life cannot keep you down for to long!  You will be okay!  Just remember to breathe and try not to get to stressed.  Just think about the future and then work towards that.  Things will figure themselves out!  Be in touch!

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 4:01 PM So sorry things aren't going too well right now! You know that I completely understand. :( On the bright side, you get to hang out with me on Tuesday! LOL! :D (if you need money to buy something to eat while we are there, I can help) :D

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