I can not remember a Valentines day that is been super special for me, I haven't had one, I don't think so. During these five years of marriage, that are about to end, I never felt special or loved by my husband or by any other man before I got married.

I don't know what I do to push them away. my family loves me and they always tell me how special I'm but men doesn't seem to think the same, my husband wanted to end the marriage a long time ago saying that he married me for the wrong reasons, that he wasn't in love with me, I don't understand why if we didn't get married because I was pregnant or anything like that we weren't even being intimate, I wanted to wait for the special someone. I thought that special someone was him, for sure.

But anyways, If you have somebody special with you this valentines day, love him, nurture him, make him feel special, take care of him, and have a wonderful time, for to me I know I'm going spend another Valentines Day alone, and that makes really sad but I still have three beautiful reasons to keep going.

happy Valentines day and enjoy your night!!!!!!!!

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 3:23 PM

I have a question for you... Do YOU know how special you are?  Are you able toappreciate the uniquely wonderful woman that you are? 

First step is to LOVE yourSELF.  When you are able to do this, not only will you cease needing  to be loved by the men in your life, you will find that their love for you is apparent and overflowing. 

You are beautiful, inside and out.  Don't let yourself forget, and noone else will be able to either.  ♥

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 8:25 PM girl, i hate valentines day...it is the day i burried my first son.  He died on the 11th, so you are not the only one who dreads this holiday!

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