i joined cafemom to meet other moms and to get some friendly advice and have a lot of fun. sometimes though i get disgusted by some of the comments on posts. i don't agree with everything that people do or the choices that they make, but darnit it is their life!!! some of these women are so quick to jump on the bashing wagon that they don't even take the time to read the posts. then everything gets completely out of hand, a fight breaks out and then the post gets blocked. i know that i am not perfect, but i tell you what i am. i am secure in my life as a wife, mother and woman. maybe that is why i have been married to my husband for almost 10 years and everyday i want to wake up to him and kiss him goodnight before we go to sleep. not everything is his fault in our relationship. there is a lot that i do to and we have to work everyday to make this relationship what it is.

i don't even comment on any controversial posts because i don't want to get hateful and hurtful comments from other mothers who just want to fight with me. that makes me sad. because there is alot that i would like to say and i just don't have time for useless high school drama. i take that back. i didn't behave that way in high school...that was elementary. i am writing this post on my own personal page so if you are NOT one of my friends and you read it keep your negative comments to yourself. this is just me venting not an open forum.

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 6:20 PM


i agree with you 100% on this. 

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 6:25 PM Yep.  I don't know why some women think that it's acceptable to act this way just because they can hide behind their computers.

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 6:28 PM you are right. this is suppose to a fun place to share our stories and make great friends. not fight like we are toddlers!

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 6:51 PM Oh, my gosh!  I've seen so many women who seem to THRIVE on all that negative stuff.  I was on a debate group and left due to the childish, hateful mockery by some of the moms.  And it was like a little clique of moms who couldn't resist letting everyone who read the thread know that they knew and liked each other with their little personal conversations going on within the thread.  Seriously, they weren't raised right and never grew up beyond jr high maturity levels.  They aren't worth my time, either.  Kudos to you for posting this!  Have a great day.

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 7:00 PM You are so right!  I haven't seen too much of that yet, but I really agree this should be a fun place to make friends and be positive.  No one needs negativity and added stress when they are pregnant or have kids around.  You are awesome girl!!!

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 7:07 PM I have to say that I agree and I am glad you said what you said! This is a place for friendship, comfort, sympathy, brag about our kids, and to vent. It does not need to be a place where we are made fun of or made to feel stupid. Great post!

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 7:52 PM I think (even though I don't know you) that it is sad that you had to put in that they shouldn't come to your own page to vent. Wow. Under my profile I put that I am always disappointed when people are fueled by anger and bitterness so I feel that  I am not alone!

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 10:41 PM I love you and I completely agree with you.  Im sorry that you have to keep your opinions to yourself because some of the ladies here are still immature.  I think you have an opinion worth hearing, and the drama needs to stop.

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