My husband is in stressful medical training and has some family issues that have hit the fan lately. He was the bigggggeessst cranky person this morning, he was letting everything get to him and everything my son did bothered him; I don't see him like this very often. He just finished working like 12 days in a row and had to listen to his moms issues with her sick older mother & father, to whom she has a broken relationship, over some stupid family argument. I got quite angry after a while because I had woke up and made pancakes and a nice breakfast, but he was so miserable to be around, i just decided to get out and do somthing, anything with my Mom. What would you do? Ignore him? Let him know you don't like being slave to his emotions? Give him the benefit of the doubt? Just leave with yer kid? He does not like to talk about stuff with me!!?!? I was so frustrated and felt like all that mattered were his problems, when i had to tend to my little boy, OH boy, Ugh!!!

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chell...
Feb. 2, 2008 at 9:49 PM Just let him work through this on his own.  When he is ready if ever to talk about things he will.  I know what it feels like to be stressed out to the max.  Usually with me the real issue is something that no-one would have guessed.

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clown...
Feb. 2, 2008 at 9:57 PM I hope you work it out. I just wrote a post about loving your hubby's maybe you should read it, if you want to. And no I'm saying it to say that I have an answer but.........maybe it will help you see this in a new light, maybe not...........but hope all gets well soon for your family.

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Kiter
Feb. 2, 2008 at 10:10 PM you know..... my hubby has a sometimes stressfull job. When he gets really stressed out and cranky, well, I hate to sound shallow... but "it" really does wonders for his stress and crankiness.  *winks wink*

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