Ladies my bestfriend stabbed me in the back.

She is talking to my husband bestfriend Jo.
Jo came by my house with another woman.

I texted my bestfriend and told her. She forward my text that I sent her to Jo. I was shocked and hurt. Come to find out when I tell her things about him she always forward my text messages.

I am not going to tell her anything anymore.

Ladies have this ever happen to you?

I called myself tying to help her out and this is what she do to me.

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 10:27 PM That is someone you need to get rid of!!

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 10:28 PM found your post at random..what a bitch...I wouldn't have anything else to do with her.

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 10:28 PM Yes, it has happened to me. When I was young and naive about friendships and loyalty with the people I loved. I learned not to be so trusting.

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 10:28 PM I would confront her on it, tell her you know she is 2 faced and she isnt fooling anyone, just making herself look bad. Yes I agree you shouldnt tell her anything anymore, you know that saying...fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me ?? Shes not a very good friend.

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 10:30 PM

Doesn't sound like a BF to me.  Sounds likes she is in denial over her relationship with Jo.  Does Jo get mad at you?


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Feb. 2, 2008 at 10:31 PM Sounds like a woman who puts her "man of the hour" above all else. Can we say "insecure?" She'll come runnin to you when he dumps her.

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 10:32 PM Well my grandmother told me that you never, ever, ever, ever tell a friend what their significant other is doing in that sort of situation. It will always come back to bite you in the butt. Even though your intentions were good and you were trying to keep her from being played like a fool, that is something that women have to find out on their own. I know it sucks because you were trying to be a good friend. Just know he has something you dont have, well unless your a hermaphodite, and that will trump you more times than not.

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 10:32 PM your friend is playing mind games and trying to control Jo.  I'd stop relaying any messages if you wish to keep your hubby and his friend happy.  Its none of her business who he sees, unless he proposed to your friend.  stop spreading the gossip.  If she asks how he is, tell her you don't know or haven't seen him.

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 10:44 PM I thank you all for your advice and comment. All of you are so right. I confronted her and told her how I felt and that I was looking out for her best interest.
I should have never said anything to her. I never thought in my wildest dream she would do that.
I have learned my lesson! She is own her own.
She asked me to forgive her. I told her I forgive you and I want to forget you because I thought I was looking out for you so you wouldn't get hurt. But you stabbed me in the back one to many times from what I hear.
She is history becuase my marriage is going awesome and I don't want anyone nor anything to come between that.
Thanks again for your advice!

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