Ya know, the whole time i was pregnant, all my husband did was talk about all the things that are gonna be different once the baby was born and ever since i had her (shes 5 months old), all he has done is bitch because she is cryin too much or she is too loud or she wakes him up on the weekends wanting to play and its driving me nuts. We have a 3 year old too (well my stepson but we have him most of the time) and i can never get anything done around the house. The other night i was making dinner and asked Jeff to keep an eye on the kids. Well he comes in the kitchen to tell me that Jade (the baby) has a wet diaper and needs to be changed...geez man cant you even change a wet diaper. Ugh. There are times like the other night when he takes the intiative to make dinner or clean something up but he will  not play with the baby or bathe or change either of the kids. Jeffery (3 year old) is still in pull ups and we are trying to potty train him. I dont know, i guess im just tired of being the only one who does anything. I am the mom yes, but i am also a wife and my own person and i think i deserve some 'me' time. I cant just leave the kids with him and go off for hours at a time because then he wil think i am leaving him and flip out. I need a girls night out and my best friend is married to a jerk! Ok i think thats enough for tonight...

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 11:37 PM My husband is the exact same way it is so annoying if our 6 month old cries he tells me to go get him! If our almost 3yr old is whinning I have to deal with it, and change a diaper its once in a blue moon!!!  He sits and plays xbox 360 everyday all night and sleep all day!!!! its so abnoxious!!

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Mar. 30, 2008 at 10:18 PM AMEN.... my fiance says "he dont do dirty diapers" i said well if thats the case dont do dinner and housework. LOL but yea men are pigs and always will be. atleast you can say " I  took care of my child"  thats how i look at it.

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