i was so shocked when i found out i was pregnant back in September.  I took a test on June 23rd and it was negative.  The guy that did the job had left me for my inexcusable behavior.  how ironic that he shows up on my front door on New Years Day, along with his brother who tells him, " I told you she was pregnant!"  Maybe i was so happy that he really wanted to see me again that i couldn't bring myself to tell him that there is a slight possibility that he may not be the father.  Should i wait untill she pops out?  It will be obvious if the baby is bi-racial or not.  I'm scared i may loose him if she is not his.  What do I do?

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 11:40 PM You should tell him, cause you don't want any problems later. Plus if  he really loves you he will understand, and wait til the baby is born.

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Feb. 2, 2008 at 11:41 PM I say tell him now, you don't wanna be on maury in 18 months. ..

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