i don't know what to say ... i am really sad i just lost my baby for the 3rd time and i don't know any medical reason till this moment it began with hope and then happy with BFP and then sadness no one can imagine

loosing adreem  ...baby just start to begin ..feeling  a knife very sharp one in ur heart Lot's of screaming without a voise lot's of tears no one see  feeling   like u are fighting a lion with bear hands

the say every thing born small and grow up except  sadness born big and get smaller and smaller   i don't think so i don't think it is smaller now i feel pain and pain

till me what to do they till don't be sad like it is so easy  till me what to do? i am praying lot's (Allah said when u ask lot's i will give u what u asked for ) a woman went to prophet mosa and asked him to pray Allah to be mom he talked with Allah and Allah tolled him that (i mad here destiny that she will never be mom)p mosa told the women that but she never stopped praying Allah after few years she had a baby mosa asked Allah what happened? you said she will never be a mom  but Allah said (i am the only one who can change destiny and she pray so many so i changed her destiny and gived her a son)

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Feb. 3, 2008 at 6:19 AM I'm very sad to hear that you lost your baby.

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Feb. 4, 2008 at 12:58 AM subhanallah....! I am so sorry... I did not know!... inshaa allah you will have a child one day inshaa allah... you just keepon praying...as I do... just keep on praying.

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Feb. 6, 2008 at 1:23 AM I'm sorry dear Sister.  I pray that Allah will ease your heart. 

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Mar. 28, 2008 at 9:25 PM

 assalaamu alaikum ,

I am so sorry for your loss sister,

my sister in law and brother had six miscarriages. and I can still see the pain in their faces every time I see them. this is so much.. but as you said.  Allah has a purpose behind everything. and even if we don't understand what that purpose is. we should trust in his wisdom.

the children that die. even before birth . can intercede on your behalf on the day of judgement if you are patient . insha' Allah you will pass this test.  and may Allah help you through your pain. it never goes away. but it gets better. insha' Allah.

insha' Allah , you will be granted a child. but if Allah does not will it to happen. I pray that you find your purpose insha' Allah.

Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him said. nothing changes destiny , except for Dua'  ( la yaruddu al-qadhaa'a illa addua')

you will be in my Dua' insha' Allah.

I leave you in the trusted care of Allah.

love and Salaam

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Mar. 28, 2008 at 10:04 PM i am so sorry you lost your baby but dont give up trying i lost eight babies before i went on to carry 3 babies to term so it can be done once they find the cause of your mcs mine was aluthelpase decect where i had to take progesterone after i got pregant and i carried babies to term julie

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Mar. 31, 2008 at 12:51 PM I am soo sorry for your loss...I to have experienced this and know the mental, emotionaI & physical pain one endures. I  pray that you will have a precious baby one day soon.  HUGZ & PRAYERZ-MONICA

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Mar. 31, 2008 at 10:54 PM so sorry to here that i have lost three babies too buti'm still trying

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