My sister just broke  heart in the worst way. I feel like I have been disresepected and  insulted all in one night. My sister has some personal issues that she needs to sort out and before she involves me in her personal matters she should make sure she ain't burning bridges like she done tonight. She wanted to go out decided to leave her son with me. Where I would have been okay with that I had already made plans to go out so I told her I was getting a babysitter for my own kids. She left anyway and I told her that she  was going to have to take her child with her. She went on a tyrade yelling and screaming so I thought everything would be alright in few hours. My dude called me to check on things and I went in my room just to get some peace of mind and talk to my man. The next thing I know the police is in my face. My sister called the police on me in my house. I let her stay with me, rent free and she repay me by calling the police on me and insulting my kids calling them ugly. I wouldn't ever bring a child in an argument that they wasn't involved in. I don't want nothing to do with her, I got no words for her. I'm truly hurt and I don't think I can get over her lying on me. She told the police I abuse my nephew because he's mixed with white. I don't care what race he is, he's my nephew but whatever...I'm done with her. She showed me her gratitude and she burned her bridge with me. 






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Feb. 3, 2008 at 6:55 AM

I just want you to know that you're not alone in having to put an end to your relationship with your sister. My older sister did similar controlling behavior as your sister did to you. It was hard to break away (and took a long time because she didn't want to give up our unhealthy relationship) from her, but, now, I'm much happier.

You're doing the right thing by staying away from her. She might try even harder for a while to try to regain control. Stick to your guns. 


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Feb. 3, 2008 at 7:09 AM My sister did the same thing to me. Actually she got her children taken away for abuse (by her ex-husband & his new wife), but she went and told my parents that it was me.  I didn't have anything to do with it.  She turned my mom, dad and brothers against me.  I didnt talk to my family for over seven years even though it hurt on a daily basis. I can now say that I am a stronger person because of it.  Believe me Karma does come around.........

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Feb. 7, 2008 at 10:47 PM OMG thats horrible and immature wat the hell is wrong w her

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