He left me for another woman. Listen to this story. My husband and I were seperated and living in two different households. He had called me right before church and stated my son needed some a&d ointment so I drove over there and took him to the store so as I dropped him back off I thought to myself why don't I just change my shirt at his house so within 10 minutes I flipped the corner and knocked on his door. He said you can't come in I said move boy I need to change my shirt for church. He said I have company I said not with my son here you don't.

So I barged my way into the room which I had been sleeping in time after time and a young woman and her child was locked in the bathroom so she opens the door and I looked at her in awwww I said what is your name and he goes what do you think her name is I said Kendra (someone who he had called years ago and I asked who she was and he said an employee he worked with. She said I have been with Delbert for 2 years (mind you my son is 2 years old. I mean so I started hitting him and he choked me infront of her and told me to leave and gave me my sons shoes and kicked us both out. I ran to church with my shirt off my arms and fell to the altar. He said he loves her after all the blood and sweat I put in this relationship. I filed for divorce that same week he called me and said am I sure this is what I want I hurt so badly still....Can someone tell me will he reap what he sows will he want me back...and then took her to vegas that is insain.....I really need friends right now 

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Feb. 3, 2008 at 11:51 AM

I am so sorry! You must be feeling everything under the sun with no reprieve!! He sounds like a dirtbag! I hope things work out for the best for you and your son

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Feb. 3, 2008 at 11:53 AM

  First of all, you are gorgeous , let me just start with that!

 Secondly  WHAT A PRICK !

 I would press charges on his ass for assualt!

   He did you a favor sweety, I know it doesnt seem that way right now, but you DESERVE and WILL get a LOT better than that shit !

 Let him beat the crap out of Kendra, ( dumd bitch )  if she WAS smart, she would have run too.

 Feel better , he WILL get his as will she .

 I am SURE of it . Move on and find a nice guy, sjouldn't be hard for you

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Feb. 3, 2008 at 12:08 PM

Here's the important thing here.  YOU deserve far better than being involved in a lie surrounding your relationship.  I know this hurts like heck right now...but you know what?  Kendra is in a very bad situation...think about it...would you ever feel secure in a relationship with someone knowing full well they cheated with you?  Both of them will get exactly what they deserve eventually.  It is how life works.

IN knowing that, step forward and live your life to YOUR liking.  Take the time to find yourself and in the end you will be so much better for this experience.  If he was that ignorant to begin with, who needs him anyway?

Hang in there.  Sending you support.


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Feb. 3, 2008 at 12:14 PM

  I would say they are getting what they deserve RIGHT now ,

 each others prescence!!!

 Move on girl, ANY man who could put his hands around your neck ( and in front of children to boot)

 IS simply a LOSER!

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