Feb 7 2007

[keirasmommy1]

So today I read a post should I separate from my husband.  It was long but Keira is eating breakfast and I had some time to sit down and read it all and give some thought.  Her husband lies to her all the time.  Really bad you need to be able to communicate with your spouse to have a relationship and if you don't know if they are lying or not that's not a relationship.  Second he hits her ...... not only hits her but she is 39 weeks pregnant.  He stopped for a while and she feels like she is on eggshells to keep him from getting upset and hitting her.

 

That's all I had to hear out of her whole thing.  You should never stay with someone that will hit you.  The first time they do this leave don't give them the chance to make this something that is normal.  What if they hit your kids.  Not cool if he s able to hit you when you are pregnant you should not be around them. 

But as I am reading this I am thinking how do you date someone like this (liar).  Scott and I dated for 4 and a half year before we married and though I didn't know everything about him like how he would be as a parent I knew most stuff about him.  And if he lied to me a lot I probably would not marry him.  Another thing and I don't want to step on people's toes with this one but we waited till we were married and made the commitment to spent the rest of our lives together before we brought a life into this world.  I have seeing people are so frisky that they mess around and oops I'm pregnant lets get married even thought I don't really know you and have problems down the road.  But you are just causing problems for your children when things don't work out later because you didn't think about the future just about getting some ass.  And when you do finally say yes I will stay with this person for the rest of my life and decide to have kid they come first.  If he hits you  leave with your kids so he doesn't try to hurt them.

 Well that's all my venting for now I have more but this is getting long.  And I forgot what I was writing because other things have come up that I must go take care of.  Misha