What is Wrong with you?!?!?

[Adelle]

Okay so I am kinda new to the whole Cafemom thing, but I have read on here more then just a couple of times about moms B****ING about their children.  Saying things like "my kids need to go back to school" or "I am going to kill myself if my 6 month old cries again".  I can go on and on.  I just don't understand.  I have even heard and seen these things in real life.  I know that we all have our days where are kids are driving us nuts.  But to say that you can't stand your kids (or whatever), what is wrong with you?  Those are your babies, they love you more then anything on the face of the earth.  I love my kids more then you will ever know.  When we have those days i just take a step back and remember that.  Then it is over and I can go back and do whatever it is their MOM needs to do.  Is that so hard?  Your kids didn't chose to be born you did.  So don't put them threw all that S**T just because you can't handle doing your job.  Be a mom and Love your kids with all your heart.  That is you job!!!  I am not saying that I am perfect.  I have made my own mistakes as a mom.  But I have NEVER not even for a second hated or even disliked my children.

[momiangeleyes]

Feb. 23, 2008 at 12:23 AM Ya well that happens often around here. I think its dumb too. But you know that when you find something you believe is inappriopiate youn can report it.

[p2of9]

Feb. 23, 2008 at 12:24 AM Well said!

[Kilya]

Feb. 23, 2008 at 12:25 AM

I really don't think that the moms who complain about their kids hate them or even dislike them. And it's not always complaining: I'd call it complaining more about the situation. They're venting. We all do it. It doesn't mean we hate our kids. Do the women that vent about their husbands hate them? No way, they just need a sounding board.

These are just my thoughts. We are all entitled to our own opinions, and I respect yours.

[cutecowgirl]

Feb. 23, 2008 at 12:28 AM

I think these ladies are just venting their frustrations..I would like to think that they dont mean what they same..If they do mean it...Then I feel sorry for the kids...