So tired

[CathieJ7]

I just can't believe I'm this tired this week.  I have had a weird week.  Sunday morning I was feeling pretty good.  The depression was lifted a little.  The sun was shining.  Singing at church was awesome.  Then I got a sudden head rush.  I had to hold onto the seats infront of me so I didn't fall over, it was that strong!  Luckily I was sitting with two friends.  Scott and Cheryl were great.  Once I sat down I didn't get back up.  I spent the whole service lightheaded and dizzy.  Scott made me eat something before I left incase it was my bloodsugar.  I haven't felt right since. 

I came home Sunday and went right to bed.  Will didn't understand that I wasn't feeling well, until later that night.  He wanted to go run a few errands and I  was just totally spacy while we were out.  I've been off balance and exhausted. 

Monday morning I woke up with flu symptoms.  I ached and my head was stuffed.  Instead of going grocery shopping on Monday night like usual, I went to bed.  I slept from 6pm to 6am, with a few interruptions.  Will was sweet and let me sleep. 

Well, today, it's a head cold.  Stuffed up and "foggy" feeling.  I've been woken up every night though.  I know this doesn't help any.  Will's woken me up around 4am both Tuesday and Wednesday morning.  I told him yesterday that he needs to stop waking me up.  I just don't feel rested at all in the morning.  So, instead of 4am, it was only 12:30am this morning.

I'm sure he's still upset with me.  He wanted me to wake up and fool around.  I was way too tired.  You know, this is the biggest issue in our marriage; our intimate relationship.  I really want to know if this is nationwide?  How often do you and your hubby make love?  Is it daily?  Is it 2xs per week?  What's your average?  I want to know this because he tells me that I'm not intimate as often as he thinks I should be.  Ok, I know he would prefer it to be every day, but that's not realistic.

So give me your opinion please.  I just want to have an idea if I'm really lacking in this area, or are we about the norm?

 I'm ready to go to sleep now.  Of course, I'm still working for another 3 hours.  I'm glad that there's nothing going on tonight.  I will get to bed earlier if I can.  Then maybe get some rest to get over this nasty headcold.