I am confused...

[adrianej]

Ok, today seemed to be a very good day.  The last time I saw my hubby though was before we both left out the house today at about 1:00 pm.

He came home this evening and saw that my 11 yo was changing my baby's poopy diaper.  He automatically got an attitude and was like, "Why aren't you changing her diaper?  Why are you letting her change it?"  I told him that I was cooking and if he is worried, can he go down there and supervise?  He walked out the room with a huff and then came back.  But instead of going down there to supervise, he started bitching at me about the fact that he doesn't understand why I couldn't stop cooking to change her diaper.

It isn't like my daughter hasn't changed a poopy diaper before.  So I just cut him off and said, "Why are you bitching so much, why don't you just go down there and see if she is doing a good enough job to your standards?"  He got all huffy and walked away into his little room with his little tv and has been in there since.

Now my problem is, I haven't seen you for most of the day.  The first thing that comes out of your mouth when you get home is complaints.  No, how was your day?  How are you feeling?  Thank you for cooking dinner?  What did you do today?  No kiss, no hug, no nothing....

I don't get it.  Now don't let me come home with any type of attitude or I won't hear the end of it....  Even though I do work 12 long hours at work and am out of the house more than 13-14 hours when I have to work....

I just thought that was really rude. 

But whatever

[natsmom2007]

Mar. 4, 2008 at 10:48 AM OH YEA IT SOUNDS JUST LIKE MY DF - BOY LET ME TELL YA I EVER COME HOME WITH AN ATTITUDE BETTER WATCH OUT HE DONT LIKE IT BUT HE DOES IT AND ITS OK. HE USED TO COME HOME HI HOW ARE YOU WE ASK HOW THE OTHERS DAY WERE HUG KISS NOW NOTHING ? ? WTC WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME GEEZZZZZZZZZ HOPE YOU HAVE A BETTER DAY

[adrianej]

Mar. 4, 2008 at 1:09 PM

Yea, they are funny like that.  But then the funny thing is, today when I was just ignoring him because he didn't talk to me all night, he had the nerve to say, "Why are you acting so funny toward me today?"

I almost went off....  But I just simply said, "Who was acting funny when they came home, had an immediate attitude, and then went into the room and didn't come out for the rest of the night?"

MEN!!!!

(Original Poster)

[keykey289]

Sep. 25, 2008 at 5:50 AM

Men are something else. I thought we women were bitchy and moody. Nope been have took the cake. The are big tail babies. When people ask me how many kids I have I say 5. I include my husband. They can drive you up the wall but we want them so... We put up with them. I know I put up with mine and he has driven me up the wall and busted me through the attic but I still love him.

Have a good day.