had it!!!

[aphrodite7400]

i just gotta say that i am begining to get a little pissed off right about now!! i thought cafemom was for support!!!  i have come to realize that isnt the case!! maybe no one gets my sense of humor, or maybe they are just bitches.. who knows....   i have posted in several group threads about several things and i get the nastiest replies back!!!  they even single my post out and "quote" it and then reply that way!!  this even happens when i post what i consider a "safe" noncontroversial reply, even if it isnt the way i would really say it or think it, but i still manage to upset someone and i dont get it!  why is this happening to me.???  i am just about to stop coming to this site and just go to myspace from now on!!  do i have a stamp on my forehead, or page?  that says treat me like crap and belittle me for my thoughts and opinions!! 

ill give an example, in the due in aug group, someone posted a thread about gaining weight, and i guess she is overweight b/c she gained 20 lbs in the first tri, and she wrote about how much did other people gain with their preg, so i replied and i put i have gained 3 lbs so far in this preg and i am 15 weeks,  dont worry, just enjoy it.  remember now we can eat a lot and have a reason for it!!  well this bitch quotes my reply and said "be careful not to encourage people toe at a lot"  i thought i was being supportive and blah blah blah.   maybe i should i put  "wow 20lbs thats a lot, you must be a fat bitch"  LOL  would that have gotten a better reply??  maybe ill try that next time!!! 

hope no one else has to go through this, its horrible! and actually makes me feel like crap!

[maddockt]

Mar. 4, 2008 at 12:20 PM Man, that's lame. I'm sorry some people are mean. I think what you said was supportive!

[HLJones13]

Mar. 4, 2008 at 12:22 PM Some people on here just have nothing better to do in their life, so they come on here and make you feel bad. Kinda feels like middle school huh?

[aefranc]

Mar. 4, 2008 at 12:23 PM that's pretty messed up - i mean, your comment to that other woman sounded supportive and friendly to me.