My husband stole my sex drive!!!

[edslady]

I'm sure I'm not the first mom to have this issue.  I had an incredible sex drive before the birth of my daughter so much so that my husband thought it was abnormal but, ever since the birth it's gone!  I think it went to my husband who now has a rather large sexual appetite.  I would love some input as to what to do.  I'm scheduled to go see my family doctor and am going to ask about it but if anyone here has any comments or suggestions feel free to comment.  I'm not sure if it's because I'm breastfeeding or what.

[MyBlessin]

Mar. 8, 2008 at 1:20 AM I don't think dats it. it's psychological. the excitement, to u is gone. u haven't had a real urge for ur beau. it's like ur insecure about ur body & worrying about if u can still do wat u could do before. answer is yes...u can. at dis point, most of the time is about EXCITEMENT! wat can u do to keep his blood pumping, & keep experimenting. it won't hurt! :)

[ann_arky666]

Mar. 9, 2008 at 12:40 AM My son is 6 months old and I still have no sex drive. I think it has a lot to do with the fact that your body isn't the same as it was before plus your hormones aren't the same (especially if breastfeeding) as they were before getting pregnant and giving birth. Plus, a baby needs a lot of attention which is exhausting so that doesn't help the sex drive either.

[MyBlessin]

Mar. 9, 2008 at 11:47 AM yea but trying to find it isn't hard. & it's fun too! lol. u don't want ur guy to stray off do u. well, let's hope he understands how u feeling right now. :)