How many tacky, trashy, and just plain stupid mothers post on CM. If you know you are trash and a bad mother, its one thing, but to actually post about it, is quite another.

 How dare you tasteless people degrade me for having an opinion. I guarentee you dont think its funny when your child is 13 or 15 years oldand they pick up a beer or a porno magazine. Whats sad is that these children are going to grow up and have to make adult decisions. What choice do you think they are going to make, with role models like yourself? Put your big girl pants on and start being a parent.

http://www.cafemom.com/group/416/boards/read.php?post_id=2757518

 Ugh....Im outtie! <3

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SFerber
Mar. 8, 2008 at 10:17 AM

Yep, we are not playing with baby dolls and trucks here.  These are real people getting trained to enter society at large.  I like to think that if people KNOW BETTER THEN THEY WILL DO BETTER. That is why I like to encourage and not so much put down.  (If ever asked I will gladly give my opinion in a palatable way-I hope) 

 I will say...I was raised very poorly though and think I turned out pretty good.  In spite of being very poorly parented.  I saw that not all families were like mine...mine left a distaste in my mouth so I at a very early age sought out surrogate parenting.  I began playing softball at a very early age...dove into that, moved in with my coach for a year and then was on my own at 13.  

 Meanwhile my mom grew up, became a Grandmother and is an asset to the family now. 

 

These are hard words but sometimes they need to be said. 

 

 

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megan...
Mar. 8, 2008 at 10:27 AM wow!! what happened??

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Monic...
Mar. 8, 2008 at 10:37 AM I believe I saw the post you are talking about, and I AGREE! Sometimes I sit back and think "These people are really moms??" I agree mama, hang in there!!

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blond...
Mar. 8, 2008 at 1:02 PM Wow I am sorry that you have been so upset.....now you've got me all curious.....what post made you so mad? I wanna read it! LOL

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TrezsMom
Mar. 8, 2008 at 1:31 PM I know. People will jump on you for being more intelligent than they are. Or having a way more analytic and common sensical idea to things. Sorry that you experienced it.

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Beaty112
Mar. 8, 2008 at 1:51 PM WOW... a little angry????

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ms_j80
Mar. 8, 2008 at 3:10 PM  I feel you on that one! What post was this? I would like to give a piece of my mind.

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milkM...
Mar. 8, 2008 at 10:21 PM

OK. Thats disgusting. I just got done reading the post, and all 133 replies, and think these moms need to step back and take a GOOD look at themselves. From the eyes of say, DFS, for example. Yeah, it may have seemed funny at the time, while they were all drunk <sigh> but why now that they are sober do they need to post it on the interenet, and BRAG about what ignorant parents they seem to be. ANd I'm not calling them "bad", but uneducated? Defintley!

 Good thing I'm not a member of that Drama-rama! HAHA They would SO flame me alive!

 

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jennbec1
Mar. 8, 2008 at 11:03 PM Ummmm...I thought it was funny. 

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caand...
Mar. 9, 2008 at 10:36 AM thats horrible.. people need to realize what type of message they are sending out to thier kids

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