Hello Girlfriends, Hope you are all doing well. Things have been horrid on this end. As most of my friends know. my husband works off by choice. It has been a while, a long while, since I have seen him. Anyway, On Thursday, I had to have some neck surgery done, which he didn't really care to hear about. I got home about 12 noon and at 1:15 pm there was a knock on the door. I was asleep so my daughter-n-=law and son answered it for me. I was served with divorce papers. I cannot believe it. The ironic thing is that the same night he filed on me, he called and acted like not a thing was wrong. Looking back, I think he had been planning it for some time. I known there is someone new in Oklahoma where he is working. I just don't now why he had to wait until He went through my injury settlement to do it.  I cannot eat, cannot sleep, and my gut is so torn up. He even put a restraining order against me, can you believe it ladies. He does not want to have to talk to me to tell me why.  I say Man Up. I guess he had me fooled the whole time. I was warned but just would not listen. I am now finding out things that he has supposedly done to my kids when I was off working. That is for another day! I feel totally emotionally raped! I was beat, lied to, cheated on, my life  savings was stolen and there is not one darn thing I can do about it. I was able to contact my surgeon and he gave me some nerve pills to help me out for a while. I am also using the same  law firm  I used when I sued the hospital. Special Favor kind of thing. Next he will want me to sell of all I have left to my name. I paid for his plastic surgery and his child support ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. Okay, enough venting. Keep me in your prayers, for I know I will need them. 

 

Brenda. 

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bigbl...
Mar. 16, 2008 at 11:31 PM oh wow!!!!!!!!!!........sooooo sorry to hear that!......i was wondering why you hadn't been around in a while......good luck with fighting it!!!!!!!!

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tessa...
Mar. 17, 2008 at 10:46 PM I am so so sorry to hear this..bless your heart..your in my thoughts and my prayers!! This is just awful!!

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Xena4...
Apr. 10, 2008 at 7:47 PM I am so sorry wow that is just done right wrong. I will keep you in my prayers

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