Lou and I have been together 8 years (6 married). With all that's been going on  I don't feel the happiness I should, I am really depressed today. This morning he woke me up and said "we made it, happy aniv." While I'm thinking, yeah we barely made it.  Here I am working with various organizations on planning what I need to do should he leave us again (Alanon for ex.) I am preparing to be with out him and he wants to celebrate our Aniv.?

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missi...
Mar. 26, 2008 at 12:51 PM Theres a reason you guys have made it...maybe take this day to reflect on the good things and the things you would like to improve in your relationship!

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tigge...
Mar. 26, 2008 at 12:53 PM

I think there is truth to the "7 year itch" theory... I know the worst our marriage was happened around the 7 year mark....I think if you work through it it does get better...this May will be 13yrs for us...

Lisa

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