this has been the most f**ked up day i had in awhile

[JANEEN1975]

ok first off if your here to criticize my spelling punctuation or whatever leave it for someone else who gives a fuck cause if u aren't smart enough to understand what i write then theres no point of u reading this oh and this is meant for certain individuals that like to visit pages and feel they are above everyone else anyways----well lets see todays my baby girls 12th birthday but it seems like everytime she has a bday it has such a down side sometimes i feel bad for her ever since the year my dad passed away on her birthday (1 month later exactly 1 month later my mom died as well) well today i get a phone call while i was getting ready to go to another ladies candle get together at her house i get this call my sons missing from killeen high he was there before 1st period then left the school i searched almost all day for him then when me and the school finally get ahold of him i find out hes been skipping often and 1 more time he goes to alternative school( i never had these issues with my kids he was honor roll into athletics and held a job) if he messes up there 1 time he goes to juvenille detention they waived the 500 dollar fine they could have gave me cause i rushed over and talked to them and went searching myself for him so needless to say the girl i wanted to reach out to and show support to by coming by her house to let her know there are people out there willing to step up and offer some friendship well that got ruined so now i have to try and explain it to her and hopefully she isn't to mad at me so anyways after all that i got to meet 2 nice ladies another sweet part of my day but when i got home more bitter comes my way this time my oldest girl at middle school having issues with her teacher well now she got 3 days iss this has been my shit day aaaarrrrrrrgggggghhhhhh i would like to just got out and get drunk my head hurts so bad and now daddy's home and handing out punishments on top of the ones i gave this will be intresting its gonna be like a state prison up in here ok i'm done just needed to say my peace

[idurp]

Mar. 26, 2008 at 6:15 PM

PRAY PRAY AND PRAY SOME MORE.....I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.  GOD DOES HERE US AND KNOWS OUR HEARTS.  THINGS WILL WORK OUT.  TAKE A NICE HOT BATH AND TAKE IT EASY......I KNOW ITS HARD, BUT YOUR WORTH BEING GOOD TO.

[croyle-smith]

Mar. 26, 2008 at 6:19 PM

Take a minute for yourself and breath deeply . I mean really deeply. 5 or 6 times . ask your husband if he can handle the family for an hour and go off by your self . Or take your daughter out to dinner just the 2 of you. KIds get into trouble and we have to deal with others oppinions of us . Its as if they do things wrong but we get the bad karma from it. And as for the person having the get together , Dont sweat it if she cant understand you had a family crisis , and most people have them quit often , Is she really the person you want to befriend?

[mrs.will]

Mar. 26, 2008 at 6:31 PM I am so sorry I don't have any advice cause you know my babies are still small.  But I guess all you can do is give tough love.  Its good to vent though just let it all out.  Like a poster above said maybe jsut you and the bday girl go out just so she knows shes not forgotten and let daddy handle the "prisoners"  lol.  Hope things get better.

[imwickedvixen]

Mar. 26, 2008 at 7:07 PM First off let me start off by saying I totally understood all of what you were saying even if some spelling was wrong LMAO.  I'm sorry your kids are being shit heads and acting up.  Teenage years are horrible and I know I have some bad days ahead of me cus my boys are horrible now even though they are young so I can only imagine how they will be when they become teenagers.  My brother actually let his son go to a boys detention center because he got in so much trouble his school didn't want him back.  Hopefully your son will wise up because Mommy and Daddy aren't always going to be there for him.  That's what happened to my nephew my brother couldn't fight the courts anymore and finally had to send him to juvy.  Try not to stress to much girl just wait all the shit they put you through is going to come to them LOL cus Karma is a bitch and their kids are going to be 10xs worse.   Oh and if you need a drink my freezer is full of liquor.  I'm actully taking shots right now cus I'm bored and going nuts.  I don't drink often but I figure What the heck it's there LOL. 

[jeyG]

Mar. 27, 2008 at 7:46 AM oh no...that really sucks...i have yet 2 get to that phase with my kids...i'm not looking forwaed 2 it. They only thing i have with son is...he's been having troubble in the bus! I dont know if it has something 2 do with the busdrivera s well cuz the old driver he never had issues with. so now my son is on probabtion..which means if he gets written up one more time he will be kicked off the bus for the rest of the school year! Now if that happened it would really suck cuz i dont drive and hubby wont be here much longer. I dont know whats wrong with that boy ...but the busdriver writes down every little thing....and so many times i had 2 come in and found out that other kids have been involved and they havnt been written up...wtf???? I miss germans chool so bad lol Teachers were not so strict. i mean here the kids get written up by the teacher for talking in the bathroom...or not keepin their hand on their backs when walkin in the hall....ummm ok???? Things are so very diferent here...its hard for my son 2 adapt and me as well...i dont agree with all they do :-(

[jeyG]

Mar. 27, 2008 at 7:47 AM Have you talked 2 your son as of why he is skipping school???? I wonder why the teachers havnt calle dyou before??? I get a call the same day when my son is sick and i forget 2 call in....a teacher will call every time.

[erikahfitz]

Mar. 27, 2008 at 11:44 PM oh man life at home was a lot like that with my little brother and sisters. my brother did something of that sort on my lil sister's 16th anyway i'm just writing to let you know that i'm hear even if ya need to vent!

[RoxLiz]

Mar. 31, 2008 at 2:33 AM

I know this isn't an option at all now but when your son is sixteen do they have a program in Killeen where you could stay in school half a day and then leave the rest to go to work? That really helped me because I hated school.

Do you think it is a problem with your daughter's teacher maybe? Some teachers really are out to make kids lives hell as ridiculous as it sounds. I knew a few that would run around the halls and send kids to the principal's office over the smallest things. I hope things get better.

[JANEEN1975]

Mar. 31, 2008 at 10:37 AM

YEAH I HAVE TO ADMIT ABOUT MY DAUGHTER SHE HAS HAD SOME ISSUES WITH THIS TEACHER FOR AWHILE I JUST HATE THE FACT THAT THE SCHOOL STICKS BEHIND THE TEACHERS ALL THE TIME MY DAUGHTER ISN'T A TROUBLE MAKER SHE NEVER GOT INTO TROUBLE BEFORE SO I DO THINK FOR HER SITUATION IT IS THE TEACHER WHEN SHE EXPLAINED WHAT HAPPENED I SEEN WHERE THE FAULT LAID BUT IT DIDN'T MAKE A DIFFERENCE ITS TO LATE TO SWITCH TEACHERS I WAS TOLD I JUST HOPE THE REST OF THE SCHOOL YEAR GOES BY WITHOUT ISSUES FOR HER ANYMORE

AS FOR MY SON NO THEY DON'T HAVE THAT IN KILLEEN HIGH AT LEAST NOT 9TH GRADE IN HIS LAST HIGH SCHOOL THEY HAD THAT OPTION BUT NOT HERE HES MESSING WITH THE WRONG CROWD AND ANY FURTHER MESS UPS ON HIS BEHALF WILL SEND HIM TO ALTERNATIVE SCHOOL (THATS WHAT KILLEEN HIGH SAID ) THEN IF HE MESSES UP THERE 1 TIME HE GOES TO JUVY I HOPE HE HAS HIS HEAD ON STRAIGHT NOW CAUSE HES IN A WIND WHIRL SPIRAL HEADING DOWNWARD SO FAR HIS PUNISHMENT IS REALLY PLAYING A TOLL ON HIM HE IS VERY REGRETFUL AND SORRY FOR HIS ACTIONS AND SEEMS TO UNDERSTAND THAT HIS ACTIONS CAN CAUSE ME SOME REAL HELL SO I HOPE THIS IS TEACHING HIM A LESSON THANKS FOR STOPPING BY AND VOICING YOUR CONCERNS I APPRECIATE AND SUGGESTIONS AND LIFE EXPERIENCES THAT MAY BE SIMILAIR

(Original Poster)

[RoxLiz]

Mar. 31, 2008 at 6:14 PM I got involved with the wrong crowd at about 14. Really bad crowd. They were a bunch of druggies and before these "friends" I had never smoked marijuana or drank.  All you can do is keep on monitoring and although it will make him mad and embarrass him call the parents and make sure when he is at his friend's house the parents are too. I think about this age I started sneaking out of the house too but I don't recall ever being caught. Maybe just check in once in a while at night. The rest really is up to him and of course he wants to rebel a little at his age and you can't do much about that but set punishments. My mom would take away the cords to my stereo or my cds. That drove me nuts!!!!!!!