My husband and I made the decision for our family that I would stay home with our little boy. I know that we will have to make sacrifices for that. Well we are house hunting and we know that our budget is low. Well we call two mortgage companies one was recomended by a realtor that we were talking to Key Mortgage or something like that, the other Louisiana Mortgage. So the guy from Key called me back and was gave me the price and I told him that I will be subbing a little bit but I did not think that would be able to be counted becasue it was not a lot and that it is not guarenteed. He said no but you could be qualified for a much better house if you got out and got a job. My eyes started watering and could barely compose myself to say thank you and hang up. I do want to say that we got qualified for much more throuh Louisiana Mortgage. All he had to say was here is what you are qualified for and leave it at that. Why did he have to attack me personally? Staying at home is somthing that I already struggle if it is the right thing for us to do anyway. I have a degree in radiology, and could make a good bit if I did get a job. BUT we feel that it is more important for me to be with Brock. Should I be upset at his comment. I cried for the rest of the day. A real job kept ringing in my ear, even though we did get qualified from the other people his comment still hurts. I don't know perhaps I am over reacting, I felt maybe I should drop Brock off at his office and tell him I need him to watch Brock while I go look for a "real job" and see how quickly he is calling me back. Has anyone else faced anything like this?