Need some advice...

  • April 8, 2008 at 10:38 PM by makaowlwoman
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Hey all!

I have a 6 month old son. He has just discovered his privates. Which is fine, except that he grabs his balls and yanks them SO HARD it looks like he's going to pull them off!!! It looks so painful! I've never had much to do with babies so I'm not sure what to do...I don't want to discourage him from exploring, so do I just let him do it or try to stop him? Will he learn on his own NOT to do that? This probably sounds stupid, but I don't want him to have problems down the line because of how hard he pulls on them? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Comments:

mom2e...
JUST LET HIM EXPLORE! BOTH MY BOYS HAVE DONE THAT & THEY ARE FINE!!

mom2ethan-logan Apr. 8, 2008 at 10:59 PM

makao...
okay,  good, thank you!!!

makaowlwoman Apr. 8, 2008 at 11:02 PM

tress...
I want to add that if my brother survived, any boy can survive!  And my daughter found her stuff too. Now that she's 7, I don't "see" it anymore, but I know it's still happening.  Hey, it belong to her!  My stuff is mine too. :-)

tressa260 Apr. 10, 2008 at 10:37 PM

JuStP...

 well even if you try to explain anything to him, i think his to small to understand,lol  i have a son and i think they all go trough that, he will get over it,  if you want you  can do an ugly face, when he does that and say eeeeeeeeuuuuuu!!!!lol  he'll get the message...

 

JuStPauLyVaULy Apr. 13, 2008 at 11:14 PM

provi...

Try to keep his diaper on as much as possible. I doubt he will hurt himself, but I always felt better trying to distract them and started early, telling both my girls and my boy, that is to do in private in their room.

Also, you can try explaining to him that he needs to be gentle with his privacies (my sons word for his genitals when he was a baby... the word stuck in our family and now all of us call them that). If you have a cat or dog, you can teach him gentle and even at six months, they understand alot more than we give them credit for.

provincialfoot Apr. 14, 2008 at 12:04 AM

Dante...
Dante STILL does that (oh those males and their penises!!!) and i just say "mommy doesnt need to see that, son.." but he still does it.  Well I have decided its his and he is just trying to explore himself and learn himself....(hell he still looks at his HANDS in disbelief!!) I dont think he will hurt himself and if he tugged too hard, he would probably learn to be gentle with himself....Dante learned to be "nice" like provincialfoot suggested with petting our cats...I think hes being normal...dont worry over it so much friend!!

Dantesmom1031 Apr. 15, 2008 at 1:37 PM

makao...
thanks guys. I'm not too worried...but man it looks painful!!! i don't know anything about babies, so I wasn't sure if it was something that ALL babies did..so thanks everyone!!!

makaowlwoman Apr. 15, 2008 at 11:58 PM

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