Just curious what the stats are on this one :)
People seem divided on feelings about pregnancy... Most that I have encountered either enthusiastically loved it or were totally miserable. While I think part of that has to do with what is going on in our lives at the time, some women just are less (or more) into the experience than others. I don't really think either take is wrong- we all have different reasons for how we feel. New life is a blessing and joy either way you look at it.
Well, what was your experience? Did you love it? Why or why not?
I am not a huge fan of pregnancy myself. I am doing better (MUCH) this time than last but it isn't one of those phases of life that "suits" me, lol. I have met many women who LOVE being pregnant... would do it over and over again. For me it is the joy that comes from the pregnancy that gets me excited: the new life, learning a new dance with hubs, watching the lil one grow, learning how much I am truly capable of giving. I am horrible with patience, anticipation, and complaining- My husband is a brave man to be considering a #3, hehehe...
I guess I also look at those who cannot become pregnant... I don't feel like being pregnant or being able to get pregnant makes me special. It is something that I have seen many friends struggle with. I don't take it for granted but I also don't view myself as more for being able to- Also my religious convictions seem to point my focus more to the life than they process... I didn't make the process I just endure and do right by it, if that makes sense.
Both my pregnancies were rough for different reasons. My last one I was on bedrest the majority of the time so I am definitely not a fan.
I wasn't a fan the first part of my first pregnancy because I was SICK. I seriously had to carry a puke bucket with me every where I went because just walking to the bathroom would make me sick. Once I was over that, I was fine, and it was fairly smooth sailing!
My second pregnancy was a breeze (Yes, I was LUCKY!!) and I loved it.
I also loved the whole labor and delivery thing, too. Most people think I'm insane, but I LOVED it!! I just wish I could remember the delivery of my son better!
My first two were awesome. I thrived being pregnant. Granted, I was uncomfortable for the last half of the pregnancies, and had a hard time sleeping (even though I was desperately tired!). The last six weeks were sooooo long, and sooooooooo uncomfortable, but overall they were GREAT pregnancies. I loved the feeling of life being created, and felt like pregnancy really suited me.
My third pregnancy...not so much. I'd just had baby number two seven months earlier, and the whole pregnancy took a toll on me emotionally and physically. Even the labor and delivery was MUCH harder then my first two. Having three babies in less than four years is hard work. I give major props to the moms that have several children back to back.
I'd do again though...if my hubby would let me...LOL.
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momma_2_three Apr. 14, 2008 at 10:35 AM