I have come to yet another example of the difference between sons and daughters. Today while I was pulling out of the driveway I saw my sons car and it had written on the rear window and saw a giant "I love you Josh" written on it and a I (heart symbol) U Joshie" on a side window. I asked him who the note was from and he said, my girlfriend (with a look on his face like.... Hello) I asked why he didn't tell me about her and he said, well, ya didn't ask!! I see him a few times a week and he never once mentioned her. I ask the obvious questions about her and he answered in pretty much one word answers. He gave me absolutly no other information that the questions I asked.
Now maybe I'm just really spoiled because my eldest daughter and I talk all the time about pretty much everything under the sun and to my knowledge she doesn't keep anything from me, believe me I wish there were some things she maybe should have kept to herself (lol.... if your reading this Chelsea you know what I'm talking about cause I mentioned it to you just the other day)
I don't know how to feel about this..... John reminds me that when he was younger he never told his mom or sister anything about his life so its pretty much a guy thing... but still, I would have hoped that he would have shared the fact that he's in love or at least that he is in a relationship.
Oh well..... what can I do, nothing thats what! I guess I should be asking more questions and not assume that he will include me in his life the way Chelsea does (and shes in Florida)!!!