I REALY NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ibrahim433]

I  HAVE  A QUESTION,  I HAVE A 19 YEAR OLD WHO STILLS  WETS THE BED , I TOOK HER TO THE DR  AND THEY TOOK TEST  AND SEND HER TO A  PSYCHIATRIST, AND HE TOLD ME SHE WAS JUST LAZZY, ALL TEST CAME BACK NORMAL, THAT IS WHEN SHE WAS 9, AND UP TO TODAY ITS BEEN THE SAME, SO WHAT DO I DO , I TRYED EVERY  THING , AND I JUST ASKED HER TO NIGHT, WHY SHE STILL DOING THAT, SHE SAID THE BED IS TOO COMFORTABLE, THAT IS WHY SHE DONT GET TO GO TO THE WASHROOM ,  AND NOW SHE IS 19 YEARS OLD SO HELP,...........................................................................  FROM IBRAHIM433 ......................

[Boomom034]

Apr. 20, 2008 at 12:44 AM She needs to see a psychologist. Not a psychiatrist. And if she has been seeing one, she needs a new one. She may need to see the medical doctor again as well. I find it hard to believe that she is just lazy. Good Luck!

[jenmomof5]

Apr. 20, 2008 at 12:47 AM Did she wet the bed when she had sleepovers or when she went and stayed at other places? I wouldnt change her sheets or anything until she can't stand the smell. After awhile it should get to her. I don't know what else to suggest.

[ibrahim433]

Apr. 20, 2008 at 12:04 PM

I  THANK YOU BOTH FOR YOUR COMMENTS , BOOMOM034 , I WILL TRY THEM AGAIN , AND THANKS I WILL NEED GOOD LUCK, JENMOMOF5  YES SHE DOSE WET THE BED WHEN SHE SLEEPS OVER, BUT I STOPED HER FROM SLEEP OVERS ANY WERE , AND I AM THE ONE THAT CANT TAKE THE SMELL SO I MAKE HER WASH THEM EVERY DAY. SHE WONTS ME TO GET HER A NEW MATTRESS I TOLD HER WHEN SHE STOPS WETTING THE BED ,,,, FROM IBRAHIM433..................

(Original Poster)

[bluiidmommy]

Apr. 20, 2008 at 4:04 PM I'm sure the smell's bad, but maybe you should just try to stand it.  It's not your job to change her sheets.  She's 19, not a little girl anymore.  Make her sleep on the same nasty sheets until she's disgusted enough to stop wetting the bed.  I hope I didn't sound too harsh, but I don't know if I could deal with that.

[ibrahim433]

Apr. 20, 2008 at 5:11 PM  HI  BLUIIDMOMMY , TRUST ME DEARY I DO NOT CHANGE HER SHEETS SHE DOSE THAT HERSELF , THERE IS NO WAY I DO THAT FOR HER , I STOPED DOING THAT WHEN SHE WAS 10, WHEN I SHOWED HER HOW TO MAKE A BED, AND YOU DO NOT SOUND HARSH , I AM A TRUTHFUL PERSON . SO BE FREE , WELL WE ARE MOTHERS SO WE HAVE TO PUT UP WITH  THE SHIT THEY DEAL OUT , AND DO THE BEST WE CAN. NO MATTER WHAT , I KNOW IT IS HARD ,  FROM IBRAHIM433

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[girlstimesthree]

Apr. 21, 2008 at 11:51 AM Have you tried accupuncture? It worked for me as a child

[ibrahim433]

Apr. 21, 2008 at 12:32 PM GIRLSTIMESTHREE , I HAVE NOT TRYED THAT , NEVER  EVEN THOUGHT OF THAT ,  FOR YOU COMMENT ,  FROM IBRAHIM433.

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[GDIMOM]

May. 29, 2008 at 9:06 PM So it is laziness? If so, maybe you need to play Mr. Toughguy and make her be way more independent.  Man she has to break this horrible habit before she gets married and has kids (in the future).

[ibrahim433]

May. 30, 2008 at 1:23 AM   ALL  I CAN  SAY  GOOD  LUCK  ON  THAT ONE  ,  AND  LETS HOPE SHE WILL GET MARRIED , SO I WILL BE FREE . HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHA ..............

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[purplecandle]

Jun. 4, 2008 at 9:01 PM

• Delayed bladder maturation. "Simply put, the brain and bladder gradually learn to communicate with each other during sleep, and this takes longer to happen in some kids," Bennett tells WebMD.
• Low anti-diuretic hormone (ADH). This hormone tells the kidneys to make less urine. Studies show that some kids who wet the bed release less of this hormone while asleep. More urine can mean more bed-wetting.
• Deep sleepers. "Families have been telling us for years that their children who wet the bed sleep more deeply than their kids that don't," says Bennett. Research confirms the link. "Some of these children sleep so deeply, their brain doesn't get the signal that their bladder is full."
• Smaller "functional" bladder. Although a child's true bladder size may be normal, "during sleep, it sends the signal earlier that it's full," says Bennett. 
• Constipation. Full bowels press on the bladder, and can cause uncontrolled bladder contractions, during waking or sleep. "This is the one that's hiding in the background," says Bennett. "Once kids are toilet trained, parents often don't know how often a child is going ... [they're] out of the 'poop loop.'"