I will never understand stupid

  • April 23, 2008 at 10:15 PM by jstanawa
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here's the deal.....when my mother in law was in the hospital dying, we offered to charge my brother in law an airplane ticket on our credit card.....last minute flight so you can understand that it was quite costly even with the medical discount.  the stipulation was that they paid us back with their tax return.  That was Feb 22.  It is April 23 and still no $$ from them.  They have dodge our phone calls, never returned calls or messages.  So we finally got ahold of them by calling from another # today.  They aren't getting taxes back like they thought because they have a judgement against them.  Piss me off #1.

Reason #2 stupid.......during this phone call, she tells my husband that they are expecting in November.  Baby #1 was given away when the mother was 15.  Baby #2, never met her father.  Baby #3s father spends more time in jail than out and is a huge reject.  Baby #4 belongs to my brother in law (biggest mistake of his life after the fact that he married the ho)...now baby #5 is going to save their marriage after he cheated on her after she had #4. 

Reason #3.......neither of them believes in working!  Yep, he doesn't 3work and she works part time.  My husband and I both worked hard to get where we are.  He has a great paying job and I lost my job and we are barely making ends meet.  But Dumb shit and his wife are having another baby supported by tax payers money.  It pisses me off that we don't always have enough money for food but they get enough welfare to pay their mortgage to her mommy, a discount on their heating, and enough food for an army while not claiming their under the table cash job.

Do I have a right to be mad?  or am I just a bitch for thinking this?

Comments:

ky_ph...
I WOULD BE VERY MAD. My sibling is like that too. Only thing is everyone they owe gets paid...but me and my hubby!

ky_phoenix Apr. 23, 2008 at 10:21 PM

mothe...
No you have aright to be mad and unfortunately you had to learn an expensive lesson.  Never let them "borrow" money.  If i let anyone borrow money I do it with the thought that i may never see it again.  I don't ask for it.  I don't remind them.  If I don't get it back shame on them they will never see a dime from me again.  If they do I consider them trust worthy to borrow again.  You'll never see that money so don't hold your breath.  Feel sorry for the kids.

mothermayiam Apr. 23, 2008 at 10:23 PM

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