Being a Mother

  • April 25, 2008 at 10:48 AM by Mskbowens
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When I really think about it, women are the strongest beings in all the world. We do so much. We are literally the glue that holds everything together....and we don't always get breaks! Being a mother, I mean a hellified mother, you know, the one that can juggle PTA, soccer, basketball, ironing, dishes, dinner, work, husband/fiancee/boyfriend, bills, house chores while sleeping with one eye open and waking up before the alarm clock goes off...SHE'S MY IDOL!!! Mother's Day is just around the corner. Some of us are blessed enough to have our moms, our bestfriends moms, grandmothers, etc. Some of us do not. My mother is awesome. Though we don't always get along she's done everything in the world for me and I appreciate her. For those women who do not have children as of yet or can not and may be raising a niece/nephew or adoptive child, you're awesome too. Any female can have baby, but that doesn't make her a mother. Mother's are nurturing, strong, firm, responsible, protective, attentive and selfless. If we look at the amount of youth that have beaten, murdered, or have disciplinary issues some of them stem from parents being friends and not parents,  young parents, lack of spirituality in the home, or lack of a strong parent (i.e mother). I am aware that it is a family cycle in some cases but somewhere someone has to want to break that cycle. We are living in some pretty rough times now. By the looks of it, the road won't get any better. So, I applaud all women who make it happen day-to-day raising our future leaders, doctors, lawyers, judges, teachers, engineers, entrepreneurs, etc.

Comments:

dasiey
i love what you wrote this is so true on how any women can give brith but it takes a true woman to rase that child i don't have a mother any more she is in heaven with both of my grandmothers and i have a step mother that i so HATE long story there another time. but i don't need my mom to be here i have my 3 three boys and thats enough of a mothers day for me.beside she is in a better place.HAPPY MOTHER"S DAY TO ALL!!!!!

dasiey Apr. 25, 2008 at 10:56 AM

butte...
U are so right!! Mother's are the strongest beings on this earth!! No mom is perfect!! I do applaud everyone who juggle so much!! I don't have my daughter full-time, because my ex was determine to take her from me as I'm from Trindad and didn't have family here!!I was told she will be back with me, being spiritually gifted, and have a circle around me!! I do have faith although sometimes I slip and my hubby empowers me.. U love your child and she loves u and believe it will be corrected.. I know one thing when I am blessed with another child, I will hold him or her so tight, and never let them go.. They will be loved as much as I love my little girl..I'm a good person, and I bless all moms who keep their families leveled!! "HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO U."

butterflymaiden Apr. 25, 2008 at 1:30 PM

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