Comfortable with Who i am??

[sublimeyedgurl]

I can honsetly say i have gained some UNWANTED pounds with my pregnancy, it bugs me so much.I am always wondering what my other half thinks of how i look. HE says i look fine. But i dont feel fine....attractive anymore...i have stretch marks and of course the love handles...But what makes me feels the most uncomfortable is SEX sadly i feel so unattractive that sex turns me off, and it NEVER used to! ANyone else with this problem please help

[nowsthetime]

Apr. 26, 2008 at 12:08 AM Very normal.  That's how I felt with my first pregnancy.  My second and third, I went walking, ate yogurt, etc. and tried to keep my weight down.  That's not to say that weight gain is your issue.  It's just a normal part of pregnancy--lack of sex drive based on what you think your self image is.   What I'm trying to say is, is there anything that would help you feel proactive in feeling and looking better?  Walking gave me more energy and toned me up and made me feel more attractive.  And, that in turn, helped me feel more sexy.  Hope this helps.  :)