Ok so I'm really pissed right now. saturday was my DD 1st birthday and I had to work, well my Dh is getting deployed and leaving August 4th 3 days before our DS 3rd birthday, so we decided that we were going to celebrate both kids' birthday in june so he wouldn't miss it. Well I work sat and sun. My Dh took the kids to church and then afterwards he was going to his mother's to till up some land for her so she can plant her garden.

well yesterday I called him during my break and he was laughing. He told me that my DD had a frosting beard and mustache. I was like ok where did she get frosting from. He's like "well my mom grandma and aunt had gotten Kyndal present. so we came over to my aunt's after church and mom had a cake for kyndal."

I was pissed. They are celebrating my DD without me. They have given her cake and presents and I'm stuck at work. How could they do that?  Well DH's cousin sent me a video of kyndal with her cake. and on the video you can here that greg is on the phone with me and my MIL saying I hope he doesn't get in trouble for this. like she knew that I would be upset that they were doing this. The woman is a controlling bitch. she's one of those women whose nice to your face but talks a bunch of shit behind your back. I know bc she use to do it to me. she prolly still is but she's not saying anything to greg about it.

This isn't the first time she has done this to me. My DS 1st birthday we didn't have money to do anything so we just had he's family come over ( my family is in seattle, Wa) and we would do cake. Well my MIL took it farther she bought pizza AND made Evan's personal cake. I was pissed. I didn't tell her I was mad I just said it would've been nice if I was allowed to have made MY son's little cake. But she brushed it off like she does anything else I say to her.

I told my DH that if we didn't plan something for kyndal his mother would do it for us. he brushed it off saying that if we tell her that we're doing both kids' birthday in june that she won't. I KNEW he was wrong but he didn't listen to me. he never does when it comes to his mommy. UUGGGGHHHH Stupid men and their mothers

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Apr. 28, 2008 at 11:07 AM Sounds like she loves to get under your skin. At least she's paying for it all!! lol  I would just celebrate her birthday without MIL. Maybe take your dd out somewhere fun, but don't tell MIL!!!

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Apr. 28, 2008 at 11:16 AM o she's not going to be happy when my family finally moves here in August. because we'll most likely spend a lot of time with them and when it comes to my son's birthday and we go to chuck e cheese i might just forget about telling her when and what time.

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Apr. 28, 2008 at 12:23 PM yea, but then the tricky part is getting your dh to go along with the plan...lol

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Apr. 28, 2008 at 4:43 PM

he knows that i do more for him then his mom if you get my drift. lol

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