I awoke in obnoxious relative hell!

[pkendall]

Ok, so I have two half sisters from my dad's first marriage. I have only seen these girls one other time in my life. They have rarely kept in contact with me or my dad until the last year. When they do happen to call him, it's collect and they usually want something... usually money which he wont give them. They are rude to my mom on the phone too. My mom goes out of her way to be nice to them. She remembers their bdays, sends them xmas gifts, etc. Lord knows dad has enough trouble remembering our bdays! lol!

A couple weeks ago, they decided they were coming from texas to visit! ( we live in Iowa) I'm not exactly sure what they were expecting from all of us. I have to work being a single parent. I can not afford to take off, not that I wanted to. I have no real connection with these women. My younger brothers have had no contact with them other than the one meeting over 25 years ago. My one brother doesn't ever speak to me or my parents because he is too good for us. My youngest brother works full time at the ethanol plant...... 12hour shifts and he can not take off at the last minute either or loose his bonus.

I gave in yesterday and made my dad happy and spent time with one of the girls. It was clear from the start, she has a motive for being here. She made it clear she totally resents me for growing up with our father. ( this is my fault how??) She demanded I give her my brother's phone numbers.... not going to happen. The youngest made it clear he doesn't want to hear from her and I don't want to damage the relationship with the other any further. She thinks she needs to know all our business about what all goes on in our lives.... not the good, the ugly....... uh, no! Not her business! She is also blaming MY mom for her mom and our dad's divorce. I broke the ugly news that there was another marriage between the one of my parents. (my dad's second wife and son were killed in a head on by a drunk). I informed my dad he better set things straight because I don't think they were told the truth by their mom. When I left she told me she came for answers and she wont leave until she gets them. Lord! She's gonna leave in handcuffs if I have anything to say about it! If I have to go back over, it will be to have them removed! She said she was gonna talk to dad about his will..... I have POA after my mom! I don't think so! I'm the one who is there when he is sick, when they need something. Where has she been? Jail! OWI-3rd offense! 

[cuddyerfan07]

Apr. 28, 2008 at 2:39 PM Oh geez Paula.. You don't need people like that around you.. I hope your dad realises what they are up to. I'd be finding some reason to have them arrested.. They truly are the sisters from hell, aren't they??

[cuddyerfan07]

Apr. 28, 2008 at 2:40 PM Just remember, Tyler and I love you very much!!!!

[VivianasMommy]

Apr. 28, 2008 at 3:07 PM That is just crazy. I hate people like that. I am sorry hun. I hope they leave soon.

[lyonmama]

Apr. 28, 2008 at 5:57 PM What, like you dont think you have enough drama to deal with?!  lol  :P  I feel so bad for you!  Hopefully they will soon tire of their escapades and go home!

[peacefulkids]

Apr. 28, 2008 at 7:28 PM

Oh my that is so sad.  THEY BETTER GET WITH THE PROGRAM or the sister from VA is coming to town to help her older sister.  Let me know how it goes.